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writes:Why would a guy cheat before getting engaged, not tell their partner they cheated on them, proceed to get married....and then say that if HE were to find out that his fiance cheated on him before marriage, that he would definitely leave her, and not want to work it out through counseling and other options. Especially after HE cheated, and stated that he learned a lot from the experience about how much he loves their partner, and how he could NEVER cheat again??? Isn't this a bit hypocritical?
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (30 July 2010):
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reader, Miamine +, writes (30 July 2010):
Yo Daniel, heads up, parrots in the pot and water flows easily.....
Dear Caller, as long as you spend trying to understand this man's mind your wasting time.. the thing to do with a confusing lying cheater, is to make sure your always fully dressed up.. great hair, exercise to get great weight, eat healthy foods like fish, vegetables and fruit.... Once you start doing this, you will get back all your confidence, then you hit the dating scene...
You meet new guys, you look wonderfull, but your older and wiser and a hell of a lot more critical and cautious... soon you will find the perfect guy, and you leave the old lying cheat, wondering why you look more sexy and adventurous without him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 July 2010):
Pure hypocrisy and control freak behaviour. These people shouldn't be forgiven or entertained by anyone.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (30 July 2010):
 Sometimes it's hypocrisy, sometimes it's control. Sometimes a guy might even cheat to know that he can keep his girl while still having sex elsewhere, but if his girl ever cheated, well there goes HIS inflated ego so he'll leave. These are very small men and not much worth anyone's time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): My friend's ex GF did about the same thing.
She cheated and got caught. He took her back. Then she declared that if he ever cheated on her she would leave him with no second chance.
It's just pure hypocrisy. Nothing more complicated than that. Some cheaters can dish it out but they can't take it.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (30 July 2010):
 This isn't a bit hypocritical. It's a hell of a hell of a lot hypocritical. And then, I agree with quiet-echo (psst, hiya!).
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