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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been going out with this guy and we dont really get to see each other as much. We have never been intimate with eachother. I thought when we first start talking that I was so lucky to be having a chance to go out with him. But now that thought has faded away. Recently Ive met anouther guy. He's a little older then me, but I think we fit together just perfectly. It was like love a first site, But I was still going out with the first dude so I didnt want to try to get any thing started with the other dude. So I avoided eye contact with him and completly ignored him. The next day my friend told me that he liked me and he wanted me to call him, I throught long and hard about calling him until I finally did. He told me he was really into me and that he wanted to see me again. I felt so guilty when I actually went to see him the next day. He was just every thing I wanted in a man. I mean he was tall dark in handsome with a great personality that fit mines. When I kissed him I did not think about my boyfriend at all. All I could think about was this new dude. The new dude asked me did I have a boy friend, I didnt want what me and him had to just go down the drain so I lied. Now I have lots of strong feelings for the new dude, I think im inlove with him. He says he is inlove with me also, but he lives far away from me in another state. I dont know how im going to deal with that. Im being a liar and a cheater right now. I just dont know what I should do right now. I cant break up with any of them because I dont know how.
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (30 July 2010):
 Ask oldsister is correct. just erase em both and start over. your bf isn't much of one and this other guy is far far away sooooo... yeah start over
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