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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 July 2010):
Trust your boyfriend. If he is that good, there will be no problem
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reader, totty-flossy +, writes (30 July 2010):
 You have been a bit vauge here... but i'll give it a go.
Your best friend liking your boyfriend is the worst situation to be in because you may end up having to choose between your guy or your girl :(
Are you sure that your friend likes your boyfiend? If your 100% sure then the best thing to start is to talk to her and see what her intentions are... she may like him but it may be a little crush and she might feel so bad that she completely avoids your boyfriend untill shes over it. In that case you should stick by your friend because she probably feels worse than you do!
You didnt mention if your boyfriend likes her or how long you have been together?? If you have a good relationship and have been together and happy for a long while then you probably shouldnt worry about your boyfriend, because if you love each other, he wont hurt you!
If your friend likes your boyfriend and intends on "taking him off you" then you need to tell your friend that you dont want anything to do with her anymore and that she needs to stay away from you both as your happy in your relationship... If she continues to try it on with your man, make it clear to him your not happy with the two having contact and that you will be very hurt and feel very betrayed if you ifnd that they have been in contact behind your back and make sure he knows that if she makes any attempts towards him that HE needs to make it more than clear that he isn't interested!!
I don't know if any of this has helped, i've tried to cover all the different scenarios :) xxx
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reader, prettydancer13  +, writes (30 July 2010):
 talk to her about it tell her that you dont like it. has she said she likes him or are u just assuming??? and maybe if she admits she likes him and goes after him your bf should have the sense to stick with you, but if they run away together maybe she wasnt your bestfriend and he probably wasnt a very good boyfriend either
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reader, niagara +, writes (30 July 2010):
Talk to her and make sure she understands where her boundaries are. People can't help who they like, but at least don't go after those who are taken. Since you guys are best friends, hopefully you two can reach a comfortable understanding. Tell her what you're worried about, and what your concerns are.
If she's going to go for him anyway, at least communicate with your boyfriend then. Hopefully, he will be understanding and you won't have to worry about much.
More details would help for a more specific answer. Good luck, girl. I know that's a stiiicky situation between you and your friend.
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (30 July 2010):
Disown her or him you didn't say whether shes a girl or boy!
thats not your best friend/ friends don't do that to friends. kick them to the curb! i could answer your question better if i knew the gender?
Good Luck!
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reader, Over..worried. +, writes (30 July 2010):
 I would ONE - talk to my boyfriend and make sure he DOES not feel the same way.
Then Ask my "bestfreind" how she could even think about liking my boyfriend, even if she started to feel something she should have pushed it back in. And tell her that they can never be kindda thing.
Then if she decided she wants to go for him or starts flirting with him I would drop her.
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