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writes:I'm 53 years old going on 25. I have been married for almost 15 years and both my wife and I agree the marriage is over. I'm still living home because of children and financial situation. I met someone last year and it woke me up both emotionally and sexually. We had 4 months of bliss. I have very deep feelings for this person but after a few months, things got cold on her end after I helped her move out of her boyfriend's house and closer to me. She recently went back to her boyfriend then found out he was cheating on her again. She is so different from anyone I've known. She is more like a guy lacking emotion, sensitivity and keeps me at arms length. I caused the problems we had before by being jealous and mistrusting and feeling helpless for the first time in my life. I don't want to screw this up again. We are friends but I want more and have a short window What is my best approach?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): if you're getting a divorce from your wife go out with this girl. if you've had four months of bliss and you really love her then go for it...don't be like me, i had the chance a couple of years ago to make something happen with someone i really fell in love with and still am in love with, but didn't take a chance. go for it my friend. life is too short.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): I know what it's like to have a girlfriend who lacks emotion, sensitivity, and keeps me at arm's length. She had no father. What's this girl's relationship with her father like? Perhaps you just connected with a girl with similar self esteem, and when you manage to raise your self esteem, you will be able to find a healthier girl.
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reader, Brooklyngirl +, writes (2 January 2010):
 Learn from the mistakes you made last time! Take a good look at what you did wrong and what she did wrong and discuss them. Figure out if the two of you could learn from that and try again!
Good Luck!
~BG~
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