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26-29,
*ove,peace'n'hope
writes:hi there im a girl here and i have this problem its about my sister.well theres this guy that she and i work with[we work at a movie theater].she texts him all the time and wen there alone hes all nice to her but i think wen hes with his friends hes a jerk to her. i can tell it really hurts her but shee wont admit wats wrong or say she wont say anythin to him. should i talk to him about it? and if so wat should i say? wat should i do it breaks my heart to she her like this•~(.[guys and girls can answer both sides would help]• oh and there not datin there just friends with fellings for each other or at least my sis has the fellins.:|
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reader, love,peace'n'hope +, writes (2 January 2010):
love,peace'n'hope is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx 4 the help ;}
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): I agree, CG, but also remember small boys act differently around their friends.
Childish, I know, but we've all been there, haven't we? Not wanting to let on or show our feelings to our mates?
It's pathetic, I know, but then young males are, generally and some of us do actually grow out of it.
What to do?
Buggered if I know, actually!
Sorry, that's no help, but unless he grows up, or will listen to your sister and realise how much he is hurting her and stop being the "hard-man" to his friends, she can only go up in age range and find a more mature boy friend, one who will treat her as she deserves.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 January 2010):
You're a great sister, but all you can really do is step back and be ready with the tissues. Your sister fancies him and won't see that he's really a jerk and is no good for her. I don't think he fancies her, I think he's playing with her to be honest. But your sister won't listen because sometimes people only see the good in others. She believes he will suddenly change, when he won't. You talking to him won't help either, though you're a great sister to suggest it. Just be ready with the tissues, and every time she gets hurt by him, ask her if a guy who loves her would do that. You might argue a bit about it, but in time she will see it.
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