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writes:so my boyfriend spends a lot of time with his friends playing football, video games and other stuff, but i think he spends to much time with them and not enough with me sounds crazy right, well i do things with my friends but he hardly do anything together!! I allow him that time since he works a lot but i am wondering if i give him all that freedom if he will take advantage of it and not want to spend time together at all, will giving him that freedom make him closer to me, i sound clingy and needy but i am not!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (3 January 2010):
 I don't think you sound needy and clingy. I agree with CaringGuy. This guy is clearly not all that serious about your relationship if he'd rather play video games and football than spend any time with you. Of course everyone needs freedom to do their own thing, but if you're not spending much time together as is and he still would prefer to play video games than see you, there's a problem. You should talk to him about it and if he still doesn't want to spend time with you, you should find someone who does.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 January 2010):
To be honest, I think you really need to talk to him about how you feel. He doesn't sound like he's into you at all. There is something wrong when a guy would rather spend time playing football, video games and such when he has a girlfriend he's supposed to enjoy being with. Everyone needs to have freedom for friends and hobbies, but not at the expense of their relationship. Talk to him about how you feel. If he fails to change anything, move on and find a guy who will love you.
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