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female
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30-35,
*ovemylove
writes:Hey everyone, I have a very close friend and we hve great chemistry. He has liked me for a while now he said, and he would love to go out with me. I told him I'd think about it, but I'm sure I'll say yes because he is such a great funny and cute guy. He only has one problem. He has no real friends! He has his own group at school but he doesn't really hang out with them outside of school much. (mostly from a problem that happened. It's a long story, not his fault). Anyways, I always encourage him to hang out with other people because I don't want him to feel I'm his only outlet. He mostly hangs out with his older brother. I suppose it's really not a big deal since he can just talk to his older brother, but what are you're feelings on this matter? We are both juniors in high school and he is going to probably go into the airforce (where I'm sure he'll make a lot of friends there and close companions) but even he tells me that he wishes he had a lot more close friends such as myself. Thoughts and advice is appreciated! Reply to this Question
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reader, sunandstars  +, writes (31 December 2010):
I don't think him not having any friends is an issue, as you say he has people to hang out with, however if he starts overcrowding your life then talk to him about it. If you are going to be in a serious relationship then you should be his first port of call when he has a problem anyway, so he doesn't really need close friends to talk to, although it probably would be nice for him. Hope this helps.
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