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I broke up with him and now he's with my best friend

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Question - (30 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 January 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *aLaLoo123 writes:

I broke Up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago but 3 days later my best-friend started going out with him. And every time anyone brings up that it's horrible. What she did to me, she says that I did it to her, but I didn't. And I Was with him for half a year. But because he asked her out so soon after does this mean he is trying to make me jealous?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2011):

Yes he trying his best to bring you down because he's mad. That bestfriend of yours wasn't your true friend. If she was she wouldnt have got with your ex soon as you broke up with him. I say you should just let them do what they want to do and move on wit your life. You dont need them

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2010):

No, it means you were right to dump him. He's clearly not ready for dating and has just gone from one girl to another for the sake of it. As for your friend, well, she's a teenage girl just like you, and just like a lot of teenagers, she's gone and made a mistake. For what it's worth, I doubt it will last.

Also, always remember that when you dump someone, you lose the right to complain about them, and you have no right to get mad at who they date. You dumped him, and therefore he was allowed to do what he wanted.

But, given that within a few weeks he'd chosen your best friend, I'd say that you're better off without him. Move on from him.

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