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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together almost three months. I love him and he loves me. Very much. Our parents refuse to let us date, so we date through text messages, late at night, when we are alone. He likes to virtually "do" me while talking. He says it's his only pleasure in life. I found it quite odd at first, but now I get horny and go along with his little games. But then I feel really odd about him "doing me" through text message. I don't know what to do about my boyfriend. I love him to death, but he is very inappropriate. And I don't know what to do about his odd "obsession". I'm only 14 and can't deal with this. And he is only 13!! HELP!!
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (27 December 2010):
 Just tell him to STOP. Simple as that. Every girl needs to learn the words STOP and NO. You need to learn to be direct like that, being passive is usually considered consent, It's awful, but you need to be firm. If you aren't then he won't STOP.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (27 December 2010):
 If you don't like it then you should stop. Don't ever let someone pressure you into doing something you don't want or don't feel comfortable doing. Right now it's the texts, but it won't stop there. Your parents are right to be worried about you and him! What would they think if they read those texts?
Ultimately, if you say you don't want to do this anymore, and he leaves, then he's just proved that he's a crappy guy who's only interested in one thing. Don't let the appeal of forbidden fruit get the better of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): i thought you were going to say you were twenty. perhaps you could arrange to meet him and if your parents wont let you, meet him with some friends. im not saying you should do anything you feel awkward with but maybe if he sees you more he will feel less inclined to send you the texts. it does sound weird, not gonna lie, especially as hes only 13. you could explain to him you'd rather see him because it makes you feel uncomfortable. his only pleasure in life? woah, thats strange. he must have some hobbies? if you have things in common how about you focus on those for a while?
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reader, enoko  +, writes (27 December 2010):
wel i am also a 13 year old guy and love hot chix.. If you guys send nude pictures then thats why he always wants to
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