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writes:i have a girlfriend and am scared that she may not want to go ahead in this relationship, so i want to keep her happy what can i do to keep my girlfriend happy? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): You cannot be "someone" or something that you are not to keep her. Be yourself.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 December 2010):
 Be a gentleman to her, carry her books, offer to do favours for her, take joy when you are able to help her out. Take her coat when she takes it off and hang it up for her, pamper her and make sure she's comfortable. Make her a cup of tea if she likes that, or get her a soda if thats what she likes. Treat her like a lady. As long as you enjoy her company and show her that you enjoy her company, are a gentleman towards her, then she will have no complaint in the world and will be dancing on roses.
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reader, needlesandpinsuh  +, writes (27 December 2010):
These people are right, you should be yourself firstly. But kind gestures here and there, fun dates, sweet little gifts, romanticisms, letting her in general know you care about her are all classic woo- ing techniques that usually win favour and are good training for a serious relationship... it helps you get in the habit of thoughtfulness and avoiding neglecting your partner's needs. :)Don't take it overboard and be fake, obviously... do what feel comfortable for you. You don't need to tiptoe around non- niceness... if you have stress in your life, you don't need to swallow it completely when you're with her. You can confide in her. Share things that are happening in your life, show interest in hers... share interests and explore them together. Have fun!You don't have to be perfect. It doesn't have to be hunky- dory perfect sunshine all the time. Let things be; don't try to fabricate perfection. Just be your real self, again, and you will find something real.
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (27 December 2010):
 You cannot be "someone" or something that you are not to keep her. Be yourself. Has she insinuated or said she doesn't like you as you are?
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reader, AuntyMaur  +, writes (27 December 2010):
 You cannot force or make someone love you. The more you try to do everything right-the more you will loose whom you are over time. Be yourself is the best thing you can do.
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (27 December 2010):
 i think that you have got to relax abit and stop being scared that she might not want to proceed in this relationship. Your best bet would be to concentrate on your own happiness first, then one you have done this and you have raised your own vibrations then you will be a huge benefit to this relationship, and your girlfriend, and infact everyone around you also.
Good luck
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reader, Abella +, writes (27 December 2010):
 hi, is it just your own inate anxiety and pessimism that leads you to pose this question?
Or can you please list examples of her actions and behavior that leads you to have a concern that she is not happy?
Shall look out for your follow up.
Regards Abella
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