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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi! I've been talking to a guy for about two months now. I'm really into him, and it seems like the attraction is mutual.I think we really click. In the begginng he kept on asking me if I was talking to anyone else, and I reassured him that I wasn't. Then he told me that I better take him seriously, so I told him I would take him seriously if he took me seriously and that I didn't like playing any games. He told me that he didn't have time to play games, and that he wanted to take me seriously. We have hung out a couple times but all the times we have hung out, I have gone to see him. He has a car so it upsets me that I'm the one that has to go out of my way to see him. I let him know that I would like him to make an effort and come see me. It seems like he always has an excuse for not having time for me or not being able to come see me. We always text, and he is constantly telling me that he misses me, but then why doesn't he make time for me? Sometimes when he tells me he misses me. I call him a liar, and he gets mad, but i just feel like he isnt making an effort. We sometimes talk on the phone but for a couple of minutes because he doesn't like talking on the phone. He says he likes me, misses me, that he wants to make me his girl but then why does he act like this?Please help me, what should i do?why is he acting this way?
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reader, doublejack +, writes (28 December 2010):
It sounds to me like he is either immature, or he's being hypocritical and playing games with you when he said he wouldn't tolerate that. Janety gave great advice, I also suggest going that route.
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reader, Janety  +, writes (28 December 2010):
 Well, it's clear that he likes you, but you should try doing what he is doing.. for example, when he calls, tell him that you have to go.. When he asks you to go see him, tell him to pick you up, you don't feel like walking all that way.. or tell him to meet you somewhere .. You shouldn't be so obviously into him, just try and make it look like you care a bit less.. And try to make him chase you, just for a while, then you'll see how he feels.. :)
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