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Why can't I talk to girls?

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Question - (27 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 December 2010)
A male India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i feel difficult to communicate with the girls. I used to talk and play with girls when i was small. Those girls grew up and now they are big. They have all the qualities what i wish to have in a girl. I feel to have sex with them. But i couldnt even communicate casually with them. I feel frightened when i try to communicate with them. Its because when i see their large boobs and their something i feel to have sex with them. So my confidence goes down. Then i'm not able to talk with them. Grant me an answer so that i could talk to then properly

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010):

That means you are a normal young boy ;). There is no rush to go and find anyone special or to have sex.. Just take it easy and let things go with the flow.. You sound sensitive and I think you'll have no problems at all.. I hate to say this but it will calm down and you will find a girl who is emotionally right for you which is far more important than sex.. I hope you find her and sorry this isn't much answering your question but that's just how I feel.. Good luck!

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (28 December 2010):

angelDlite agony aunthi

this must be difficult for you now that you notice girls as sexual beings rather than just 'people'. do you feel confident to speak to girls that you dont find attractive? make this a good habit to get into. practice on them enough so that talking to girls becomes very natural to you and hopefully you be able to keep more relaxed then when you talk to beautiful girls. when you are talking to girls, do your best to look them in the eye. we like this, and it will stop you from looking at their boobs! start getting into the habit of talking to girls TODAY, do not let this become a big problem

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