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writes: How can I bring back the spark in my relationship with my boyfriend? We've been dating for a little bit over 9 months and the feelings are kinda getting dull. We're always open for fun/new ideas and would do just about anything together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to everyone who replied!
I took you guys's (proper English?)advice && now things are getting better. It wont happen over night but its in progress =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): I would suggest try to do the things you used to enjoy when you first got together but also try new thing, and see if that rekindles the happy memories and feelings you had for each other, plus create new ones. Hey i'm no expert but it seems like a good idea to me.
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (26 May 2009):
After a while it does get dull you get so used to each others ways and a pattern occurs, to gain back what youonce had and loved all you need to do is make a few changes, not adjust everything just do something a little out of character (within reason obv) and just get to know each other in a different light.
Start by spending the day or night doing something completely out of the blue that you havent done before.
Befor jumping straight to the good stuff why not take some time out and talk? See how hes actually feeling and who knows maybe you can work together to come up woth something to spice up what once was?
Its worth a shot and at the same time will show how strong you both are as a couple, you will come through this the other side shinging if you both want it enough.
Give it all youve got, live a little but get his opinion too, surprises are fun! Be inventive and enjoy what youve got.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): One way to kill a new romance is to spend too much time together, you don't have time to miss each other. Develop some new interests and spend some time on your own apart with those and family or friends, then come back together and share your experiences. As far as things to do together active dates are a lot of fun and get your adrenaline flowing....like amusement park rides, off road jeep rides, hiking, taking a walk together, doing nothing and walking around down town with no plan in mind and stopping in and having a hot dog in a new restaurant, crazy stuff like that. Get to talking and sharing more of yourselves when you are together.
Good Luck
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reader, You Heard Me  +, writes (26 May 2009):
Keep dating... find more interesting things to do on a date. If its going south after only 9 months, this may be a clue the relationship has run its course. Going forward, pace yourself in your next relationship. Save some things for the 9th month. Too often we share too much too soon.
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