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writes:I have a date tonight with a man ive seen 3 times but each time we was drunk and was out partying...tonight have to meet him from work with no alcohol....im so scared he will take one look at me and be like yuck....im so nervous to the point my stomach aches and my confidence is so low at the moment! Any tips to how i can not worry so much, and if he does realise im more ugly then what he can remember how do i cope with this...i really like him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): It's always scary meeting someone for the first time, or sober for the first time.
Try to change your mindset...all you can be is the best you can be! Try to relax and enjoy the date.
Don't put so much importance on what his opinion will be of you. It could go the other way, and you may realize he's not what you thought he was.
So, think of yourself as the judge rather than the one being judged! And have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): You need to seriously relaxe. Getting yourself worked up is no good for you. If this bloke is good for you then you will hi off. If not then on't get upset. theres plenty of other fish in the sea for you. This bloke might be thinking the sam as you, anyway.
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reader, Rogerramjet  +, writes (26 May 2009):
Just remember: Confidence is sexy! If you've seen each other 3 times (drunk or not!) and are going ahead with a meeting, i think it's safe to say he sees something there that he likes..
Go in, and have fun with it.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (26 May 2009):
 Unfortunately this is something that everyone has to deal with and it is scary, but what you don't realise is he is thinking the same thing as you!
Don't worry meet him have fun and get to know him while you are both sober, you never know he might not be what you expect either. The only way to get over this is by actually doing it!
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