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It's been 2 days and no text! What do I do next?

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Question - (26 May 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

So I met a guy, had an amazing first date, ended with a kiss and a promise to see each other again. Before I'd even got home, had a message saying how the enjoyed themselves etc etc. Had a text every morning and throughout the day for the next few days. Had second date, which again, went really well and had a cuddle and a kiss and ended with another promise to see each other again.. this time, no text to say they enjoyed it, no contact the next day, and no reply to the message I sent saying I enjoyed the date.. or to one I sent yesterday just casually asking how his weekend was.

Has only been 2 days no contact, but even though it was his brothers wedding the week before, he would text me through that.. so, has he suddenly lost interest? or am I over reacting? How long should I wait? or should I ring him? lol.. I hate the dating game :|

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009):

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Thankyou for all your answers, its just so hard trying to resist from texting lol.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009):

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Hey, thanks for the answers :)

I don't think there is anything I did wrong on the second date.

Yeah I don't want to text again I guess cuz I don't want to come across like that at all lol. I guess I'm just new to all this again after a long term relationship.

I think I might try and ring tomorrow.

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A female reader, lover12234 United States +, writes (26 May 2009):

lover12234 agony auntOk first calm down.

his phone could have died , or he lost it.

that or he was playing you and he felt bad so he stopped txting u to get ur hopes up...

boys are confusing...

dont worry about it give it a week and if he hasnt contacte you then call him .

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2009):

Give it a few days. You don't want to come across as all "WHY HAVEN'T YOU TEXTED ME TO DISCUSS NAMING THE CHILDREN!!!!!!"

You could text him just at random to remind him that you exist though.

Something like "Hey bored and mass texting. Talk to me!" so he thinks it's not just him you are texting but everyone.

Or you could text him to say you saw something that you talked about on the date.

Dating is a bit of a game at this stage so PLAY it!

Good Luck!! xx

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