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Why did he do this if he likes me?

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Question - (2 May 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 2 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello

About the boy I told you that I thought he fancied me the signs he gave me my brothers friend

Well my brother and his girlfriend told him and I came outside and he told me in my face sorry but nah he don’t fancy me I said to him that’s cool with a smile and walked in but cried when I got in he embarrass me in front of his mates ?????

The signs he gave me where:

• Staring at me in to my eyes

• Makes me laugh

• Comes out and knocks on my door too see me NOT my brother once asked where I was.

• Sometimes stays out in my garden to wait till I come out.

• Both like each other BUT he does not show it only when my brother is not there.

• Sometimes gets in to my personal space

• Gets jealous when I talk to his mate or if I pull him away and chat with him he will notice.

• Looks at me when he's talking to other people

• Says hi to me or just stares in to my eyes

• Stares a lot (esp. right into your eyes) and holds the stare for longer than usual

• Eyebrows raise when they he sees me

• Eyes get "soft" when he looks at me

• Hangs around with me sometimes BUT mostly stands and talks to my brother and just stares at me BUT does not make it that obvious

• Puts his hands in his trousers

• Says dumb things just to keep you talking e.g. likes says to my brother “Oh if you don’t do this then I might “give you a lap dance” loll

And know am not even going to go outside anymore…Why did he do this?

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A female reader, Auntie Noodle United Kingdom +, writes (2 May 2009):

Auntie Noodle agony auntHe is possibly scared that your brother might not be accepting or he might not feel the same way. Either way your best course of action would be to act totally fine even though it's killing. In situations like this you have to let what ever happens take it's course. He knows your like him, the ball is in his court now.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009):

because he is human. to make your brother laugh...

stop trying to read signals...

he isn't interested... sorry...

go find someone who is really interested in you.

Star.x.

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A female reader, tina222 United States +, writes (2 May 2009):

Most likely to see what your action was. He's trying to see what kind of person you are and see what makes you laugh. He may be annoying but try to look past that and see how he really is. if you are worried what you brother thinks don't write a note to him or anything, maybe get his cell and text him and ask him why he always acts like that. Of course he won't tell u what i did, but it might help comming from him

Tina222

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009):

To be honest it soundslike you became obsessed with this guy to such an extent that him just glancing at you made you think that he was wildly in love with you! Stop making a fool out ofyourself .

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A female reader, tina222 United States +, writes (2 May 2009):

I would have to say because he likes you, but it sounds to me he is scared of what your brother thinks. He might also want you to come to him(some boys do) so you can ask him why he always stares ant you when your brother isn't around. Don't worry boys are complicated...lol

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Sorry i mean the question was meant to be " Why did he say that infront of my brother"

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