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41-50,
*oreen
writes:after meeting my man while i worked in the sex industry, should i have expected him to only show interest in being with me if we were having sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, doreen +, writes (21 April 2010):
doreen is verified as being by the original poster of the question Wow, i had forgotten about writing this question. Because i'm new to this site, and because an answer to my question took a while i thought that no one cared. It is great to now know different. Thank you all for your thoughts on this matter. I am involved with this same man.( going on 7 years now) He was very affectionate when we first met and he made me feel like a lady in all ways. As time went by i experience different things with him,...mostly though, he helped me believe in myself again. I am able to TRUST again and I think my original question was rooted from my inability to trust. Isn't it funny how a lifestyle can affect a person. Anyhow, once again, "Thank you." The different input from the people who answered my question also played a big part in my emotional development.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (28 March 2009):
 No, if he showed interest in you, you were perfectly entitled to expect him to be interested in a lot more than just sex. You were perfectly entitled to expect him to be interested in all of you.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (28 March 2009):
No, if he wanted sex then he'd have to pay. If he wanted a relationship then he could date you and love you.
If he didn't date you and love you then he just wanted a freebie and was not worth your while.
You have to know to make them wait, to make them prove that they care.
Good Luck!! xx
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