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writes:hi, im an older women who lives by her self and have not had a male partner in 20 years, i have recently been texting and calling a guy who i think is my perfect match and think i am falling head over heals for him, but he lives a fair distance away,but since i have not had a sexual partner for such a long time i am scared will not be able to satisfy his needs , can you give give your sincere advise
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009): Ah, don't worry about satisfying him! Men are satisfied easily, trust me. As Woody Allen said, Even bad sex is good. Men don't think any kind of sex is bad:) And don't be afraid to say that you haven't had a lover in 20 years and that you're scared: Men will think that's endearing, and honest, and sexy. Really. Have a glass of wine, and enjoy a good roger. He'll do all the work:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): Your situaton sounds similar to mine - can I ask how old your guy is?
But I say just go for it - if you like him and he seems to like you, then by all means give it a go!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): hi, lovely lady im compelled to advise your question. Firstly be a free bird;love yourself and trust your instincts. Secondly what are your needs? what do you want from this man? If its fun,have fun,but meet on neutral ground! is he who he says he is? It's perfectly natural for you to reach out and grasp at an opportunity,after all its been a while since youve enjoyed. You can't evaluate a persons true identity through texts and telephone,be mindful use reason and logic! Lastly 'slow and steady wins the race' concentrate on what 'you' want,dont worry about satisfying his needs right now. Be free, be safe and enjoy!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (27 March 2009):
 It's like riding a bike, Babe. It'll all come back to you once you get back in the saddle!
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reader, minnie_me  +, writes (27 March 2009):
you dont need yo worry just because you havent done it in 20 years it doesnt mean you wont be as good you just have to relax and trust youself if he loves you he wont mind how good or bad you are at the start, Good luck with everything!
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reader, Smiles  +, writes (27 March 2009):
Certain things you never forget; relax and trust your instincts! Good luck!
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