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writes: I've been in a very loving relationship for 8 months now. My boyfriend is so caring, understanding, lovely... everything I could ask for and we very rarely argue.When we first together we had sex basically every day. This is how I was with my ex boyfriend too, I've always had a very high sex drive.However this past month I have noticed greatly a change in my sex drive, I really don't feel like it at all and I have no idea why. I still find my boyfriend unbelievably sexy and we havent argued at all. We must have had sex only 8 times in the past month and I'm thinking my boyfriend's sex drive has changed too as he doesn't always try it on.Has anyone else gone through this in such early stages of a realtionship? Is there anything I can do to make me want to have sex again? I want to feel sexy and horny again, I do miss the intimacy and don't know what's wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009): I think you finally ;-) may be starting to get so comfortable with each other that the (literal) thrill of newness has worn off to a large extent. Time to do all those "shake up the sex life" actions you've probably read about: sex in different places, with different clothes/hairstyles/colognes & perfumes, risky sex, kinky sex - whatever you all haven't yet done that would lend an air of exciting newness to your encounters.
This isn't anything that most all couples feel after a while; no relationship trouble, just overly-comfortable with each other. Time for suprises! from each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): I can't speak to how to make yourself horny again. But 2x a week is nothing to be shy about. So long as you both still love each other and this isn't symptomatic of some underlying problem in the relationship, I don't think there's anything to be worried about.
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