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writes: I started dating this wonderful guy in may of 2007 who lived 2 hours away and he was also older than I was ,had his stuff together,2 kids like me,and went through crazy divorce. because he lived so far away we would tend to grow apart when he was away and he also traveled alot ,but when we were together it was like magic ! I met another guy who filled the void at first and then he fell for me and he is 5 years younger ,dui,not stable, sex is amazing,and wants to be with me all the time now and its relly sweet I just can't get over the older guy they both know about each other .how do you choose
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): Sometimes we have to think with our heads, not our hearts. It is truly a battle between the head and the heart. Logically, you know the LDR guy is a better choice, has his act together, stable, etc. While the other guy is somewhat more available. You have to do some serious soul-searching and decide what you really want from life.
It's not often easy! But you have to make a decision before someone gets hurt!
Good Luck!
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 The fact that you have fallen for the new guy because you were unable to deal with a long distance relationship suggests that you stick with a guy who lives nearest to you!
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