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writes:my boyfriends 17 and im 22 weve been dating almost a year now were pretty happy and planning on moving in together soon his family knows my age and doesnt mind at all however my parents and freinds do not know Im just wondering should i tell them his real age and does our relationship have a future or am i just wasting my time? Reply to this Question |
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reader, mr41  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 i think you should just stop waisting your time. there will come a time when partying will come into play(21) and he will forget all about you..... so why hurt urself like that
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (15 March 2009):
 Age is just a number and when you fell for him i am sure it never entered your head till later cause the love that would have been there would have by passed that.
You wont know if your wasting your time or not till you both move in and live together the only way you will find out if your both compatible is by doing this and i see no reason why you have to tell anyone his age as long as your not breaking any laws!
Gina
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reader, PeterPan + ♥, writes (15 March 2009):
 Hey -- just one comment here... you mentioned moving in together -- cool for you guys!! ...but, you did say that he's 17. In the States, that would be a problem. I'm sure Canada has laws similar to that (or at least some law that states when a person is considered an adult). I mention this to you because I don't want to see you get into trouble. Yeah, age is just a number, but in some cases, it's a number that can get you into trouble... might be safer to wait until he's 18 before you live together...
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reader, rcn + ♥, writes (15 March 2009):
 Years are just a number. If you're compatible and know he's the one for you, stick with your feelings and the direction they take you. If we listened to everyone who passes judgment, most of us would never get anywhere.
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reader, bemyval +, writes (15 March 2009):
bemyval is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI guess i just dont want people to think im a creeper or something honestly id never even been with a younger guy before its jsut when we met something clicked i just feel some of my freinds and perhaps my family will judge some people already make fun of us when they think were only 3 years apart let alone 5
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reader, rcn + ♥, writes (15 March 2009):
I think if you want to be with him, why hide the truth. Hiding the truth says their is something to be embarrassed by.
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