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*upidLover
writes:So, i've been sorta CASUALLY dating this guy..and the weird thing is..somehow i get turned on and come when i imagine him in bed with another girl from our group. could someone explain why this turns me on?She is no competition at all..but somehow i find it hot thinking about this guy that likes me having sex with this one girl from our group...feedback please?? Reply to this Question
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reader, CupidLover +, writes (6 July 2009):
CupidLover is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you for your answers everyone.
But yes, i didn't mention anything about a threesome.
This guy cares about me and he has no intentions with the other girl (whom is already in a relationship)
But i think the idea of him being with her in bed turns me on, where in reality- he wants me and only me.And i guess in a way that makes me feel sexy.
Just like the gentlemen said "it turns u on.and thats that"
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): Yeah... she didn't mention anything about a threesome, which makes it a bit different. It's pretty normal to fantasize about threesomes, but I don't know about picturing someone you like wiht someone else altogether.. and youre not even in the picture..
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reader, garcypher  +, writes (22 June 2009):
You get turned on by the thought of having a threesome as thousands of people do. It's just a fetish. We all have them in one form or another. There are a lot of reasons for it . Sexual preferences can't be explained properly so don't listen to anyone trying to be fraud. It turns you on and that's that. But beware of the dangers in making your fantasies reality.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): Well at time i've imagines my husband with other girls with bigger breasts and such, because I am not entirely satisfied with my own body. Although I know he is.
It's a product of my low self esteem.
I mean, I can't tell you why it's happeing to you, but I can give you an idea of why it happens to some people.
~SY.
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