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A couple of sex questions, mostly for the guys!

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Question - (22 June 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have a few questions for the guys. I have a boyfriend and we are very much in love and I have some questions about things he does. My first question, while we are kissing he opens his eyes every once in a while? Can anybody let me know if thats a bad thing or just something he does? Guys, while your eating a girl out is there anything you like for her to do to you? Like rub your head touch your face things like that! I like to show him attention at all time while making love or doing oral, and I feel when he is giving me oral I cant do much to show my effection toward him. I was just curious if you could let me know if there is anything I can do!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009):

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Thanks for all the replies. I dont get much out of playing w my nipples and breasts. I feel kinda bad bc when I'm about to cum I push him into me and squeeze his head between my legs.. lmao, he tells me that its ok and doesn't hurt him but I dont see how it doesnt! He was the only guy that ever " got me off " and he never fails, but it does it with my help at that last minute! Do you think it really doesnt hurt him??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009):

yea just make noise, but don't be fake. tell him what to do and what he's making you want to do to him. squeezing your titties and arching your back are really hot too. lick your lips and bite them. just be visually arousing. i got a hard on just thinking about it. time to go find my girl

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (23 June 2009):

niki20 agony auntim not a dude but my husband opens his eyes every once in a while, lol (1) i even catch him watching tv so i wouldnt worry about that. (2) if your concerned about making him happy try 69. or just the plain satisfaction that your enjoying what hes dishing, could be enough for some guys. why dont you talk to him and ask what hed like you to do wheb hes going down on you.

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A male reader, PVT_Jersey United States +, writes (22 June 2009):

i wouldn't worry about the eyes thing, as i do it too. it doesn't mean anything, and doesn't not mean anything. it's just what he does.

as for showing appreciation, it depends on how you guys are together. if it's your thing, just make noise. some moaning works. don't fake it, just be naturally vocal. i like when my girl does that, cuz it lets me know i'm doing a good job. if she gets louder or higher pitched, i know she's closer to orgasm, so i'd do it harder or faster, or if i was getting tired but knew she was close, i'd still keep going.

if you need to do something with your free hands, maybe squeeze and play with your boobs/nipples. i don't care for head rubbing, but i don't hate it. i shave my head, but if he's got hair, trying giving it a tug or playing with it. but def try being vocal if you can (if you're at your parents house, or have a roommate, that obviously might not be possible).

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A male reader, joecentric09 United States +, writes (22 June 2009):

Well to start off with. The opening of the eyes while kissing ls most likely something he does. Depending on the person they might have different styles in kissing. Some open their eyes some keep them closed. As well as the oral thing. When l'm eating a girl out l like when she rubs the back of my head, or gives me direction like higher, lower, faster, slower.

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