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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, I messaged her friend, and she messaged back; 'that is very sweet of you...' and gave me some suggestions of where to take her. The zoo, or for a meal, were two suggestions.
Shall I send her a text or ring her when she gets back from Egypt tomorrow?
Also, I don't want to jump the gun, but how do you know if a girl has got a boyfriend; would she mention him or something? The fact she joked with me about going to Italy and me taking her, is that a sign that she hasn't?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell, I've messaged three of her female friends!
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reader, Samii  + ♥, writes (1 July 2009):
 It doesn't really matter as long as they know what she likes? Good Luck and I hope it go really well for you, you've put a lot of thought and effort into it. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnother question: Sould I choose one of her male friends or female friends?
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reader, Samii + ♥, writes (1 July 2009):
I think that this is a great idea, but tell them you plan to take her out and you want to do something a but different for her. Don't do too much digging though as she might find this a bit creepy. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe has just gone to Egypt for a week - and I want to ask her out when she gets back, because I've missed opportunities with other girls I like before, but not this time!
She has got a number of friends on Facebook, should I do some digging, and find out more about what she likes?!
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reader, Samii + ♥, writes (25 June 2009):
I'm afraid i am stuck maybe you should go online and look for events in your area. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe texted last night; she said she likes Italian history, I said "I can't take you to Italy' She said "That's a shame, I was looking forward to going to Venice'. I said 'We'll work up to that.' She said 'Lol fair enough'. We were too tired to text aymore after that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'd like to something a bit different from what other boyfriends may have done, but if I can't find one, dinner will be okay
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reader, Samii + ♥, writes (24 June 2009):
Why dont you just take her to dinner? Or do you want something a bit different. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, that's out, because she doesn't do supernatural stuff!
Next is history- there are lots of historical walks where I live - although she says she likes cultural history. What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've got to hurry, because the walk is on Friday!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): This seems good enough to me, my parents even went on a ghost walk for their honeymoon!
Good excuse to huddle up when scared too ;)
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reader, ladydela  +, writes (22 June 2009):
 i think its a wonderful idea the reason i think that is because :she might get scared which will give you a chance to your arm around her 2 it will show her that you are brave and 3 well it might be a change from the old boring movie date so yea i think you should ask her on a ghost walk
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, I think you're right. I'll find out if she likes ghosts though, but there'll be quite a few people on the ghost walk - people say it isn't very sppoky though!
Also, I've got a disability - cerebral palsy - so it can't be something really physical
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reader, Ask oldersister + ♥, writes (22 June 2009):
 Make sure you bring a blind fold and a cattle prod in your trunk- she may require a little assistance. Seriously, I think this is one of those things you set up as a surprise but if she isn't into it once you get there- have dinner plans as a back up. If she has any kind of sense of humor, she'll get a kick out of the whole thing.
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (22 June 2009):
 I'd love it ;)
Plus if she gets scared she can snuggle up to you- sorted!
Just dont you get scared! That would not look good.
Plus Id ask her before hand if she wants to go, as some people hate things like that!
Good luck xx
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reader, Ask oldersister + ♥, writes (22 June 2009):
Ask her if she's a "spooky girl"..
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reader, Samii + ♥, writes (22 June 2009):
I think you should find out what she like first. Then you can plan somewhere different to go, I think she wil appreciate you going out of the way to plan something different for her. xx
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reader, satindesire +, writes (22 June 2009):
 I didn't know what you meant about "ghost walk" so I did some research.
Honestly, I'd ask her first before planning this. Some people might not like something like this at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'll find out - how shall I word it?
I don't want to be another 'drink or movie' kind of guy, and we've never met before, so I wouldn't call it a date
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reader, Ask oldersister + ♥, writes (22 June 2009):
Why not? I'd be intrigued...
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reader, happytochat  + ♥, writes (22 June 2009):
Ok so going on a ghost walk is not what you would consider the norm, but being different to the norm doesnt make it a bad thing as such.
Do you know if shes into ghosts and all that type of thing? If so, then it might be a good idea. If shes not into that type of thing, then probably a bad idea.
Typical first dates usualy include, dinner, lunch, movies, coffee, drinks etc.
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