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writes:I've been dating this guy now for over 3 months, not exclusively. sunday he told me I was "growing on him" I asked him what he meant and he said that in the begining it didnt really mean anything to him, cos he wasnt looking for anything (he'd just got out of a 3 and a half year relationship) but now im growing on him. We didn't speak the next day the day after he text me quite late at night, i text him back but he didn't reply. The day after he was on facebook so i said "hey" and he replied "helllo you oh no i aint text you back sorry" and he started having a conversation with me. That was wednesday and we haven't spoken since. For the past few weeks though he hasn't seemed to text me much, but this is the 1st time he forgot to reply. What really confuses me is that he said in the beginning it didnt mean anything to him, however he texted me alot more back then and seemed into me a lot more than he is now. I know only time will tell what's going on but I'd just like some opinions please??thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): Why was he dating you if he'd just broken up I wonder.
Leave him to do the contacting; it's the only way you will know if he really wants to be with you. And if he does contact you, ask him to explain his behaviour. You will hopefully then feel that you are worth respect.
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reader, quarky +, writes (3 July 2009):
 As he's been in a relatively long term relationship before, he may just want to take it slow and not show or admit to you how he feels right now. I'd certainly be more cautious and have been in the past in such situations. Good thing is he seems to like you and has contacted you to chat. I think he's just taking it easy. This of course can work for or against him if he really wants to be with you. Question is, are you happy with the pace?
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