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female
age
30-35,
*ostandbroken
writes:Hello, my boyfriend and I recently broke up. I know I still love him and I know he still cares about me, but he is extremly mad at me for my past. I gave him my msn password because I honestly didn't care if he went on. But before I met him there were old emails that were nudes of myself that I sent. I tried lieing but it just got him even more mad. I don't know what I should do he told me to think of what I really want and that I should find someone cause he is no prize and each time he hears me text or call he thinks about that and gets even more mad at me. I don't want to let go cause when we were together everything was perfect we had some issues but we conquered them as a team. He still loves me and cares about me but he said he doesn't want to try being with me.what do I do to get him back with me? He says time will make it worse then I said I won't talk to him for a while he said no and that he will talk sometimes. I just don't know all I know is that I love him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2009): Its hard when your past comes into play BUT one thing he needs to get over is that no matter what you do you cant change tyhe past and do you want someone in your life that hold someonthing over your head that you cant control? How is that fair? We all make mistakes and poor decisions but thats how we become strong and grow.
One thing YOU need to change is being truthful. You cant expect him to trust you if you lie to him about anything but DO show descression. Being truthful doesnt meen telling him every single detail of your past relationships but be open to talking about it. I bet he has done some stuff he regrets in his past aswell. One thing to remember to is the old saying:
If you love something set it free. If it comes back to you its yours. If it doesnt , it never was.
Hope that helps!
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