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writes:a few months ago my boyfriend ended our relationship. Hes in the army and he was away for 8 months. He came back and within a few days he text me after me returning home from his with a text "i dont feel like its working out, it feels awkward"... I was devasated to say the least! It came from nowhere.Anyway we hadnt spoken since but recently we started talking again, and he gave me a reason, short version "i was a coward and i should've just told you what was going through my head am so sorry". He's home next month and wants to meet up and talk about getting back together, which i have agreed to because my feelings haven't changed toward him, yes am hurt but in a way still love him. He's told me he still feels the same just angry with himself for hurting the one thing that meant the world to him at one point. I just dont know if i should! I mean would you? After writing to him for 8 months pouring your heart out through letters, emails etc and then comes home everyhings fine and then a text telling me nothing. My heads all over the place am just looking for someone to shine some light on it... another perspective! please ...x
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reader, Renee okc  +, writes (4 July 2009):
What do you think he has no regard for how you feel, If you get back with him he could do the same thing again and this time you maybe left to fend for yourself in a foreign place or out of state he sounds like he isnt sure and there is nothing wrong with having doubts but what he did and way he did it wasnt right like yousaid you have written to him for eight months and all that time he never said anything i would think long and hard before i trust him again for all you know he may have had a girl on the side and it didnt work out and now he is trying to come back because he knows you will take him.
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