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*acyLace
writes:my boyfriend and i r kinda havin problems. we havnt been talkin that much and i havnt really seen him that much. is it possible that i hav been pushing him away the more i text him? should i just not try to text him?
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (14 July 2009):
Yes, it can push him away. And no, you can't ask him, "Is all my texting pushing you away?" Because he's not going to give you a straight up answer and he may not even know if that's the reason why. The more you press a guy for answers, the further away he'll drift. Leave him alone, give him some space. When he's ready to talk to you, he will. For now, don't text him until he contacts you.
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reader, LC_2008  +, writes (14 July 2009):
 From experience can I say that no matter how much you text it doesn't make a difference to the problems you are having in the relationship. The only thing that do is distract and cover up the problems, and give men an easy way out by sayin you are being clingy and obsessive.
You need to sit down with this boyfriend and talk to him and decide if he is the best person to be your boyfriend. It may seem hard if he isn't but you will be happier and then available to someone who gives you the proper level of communication.
Good Luck
xoxoxx
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reader, cherry cherry boom boom +, writes (14 July 2009):
Your not communicating enough go some place with him, and when you text you can't see his face or hear his voice and when you do that you get a kind of warm feeling that he cares for you. This ya girl, peace.
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