A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Trying desperately to forget about this guy I had an affair with, but I still eagerly await a text or call. We only slept together once and now it has been 3 weeks since we've been together.We text about every other day, but never discuss what we did-- only small talk. I know it sounds sad and pathetic, but I want to be with him again. I can't stop thinking about it. How do I get beyond this if I still think about us all the time? About the couple nights of passion we shared. When we are together he confesses his feelings about us and how he too thinks about us all the time, so why the small talk? Why not arrange to meet again? Is he just afraid of having feelings and getting hurt. I explained that we could keep it completely separate and just have fun, but I think he has a hard time separating feelings from the act. I can do this ( I think) I just want to be alone with him again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): It sounds like you have been used. Move on.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 Tell him just what you said in here if your age is what you say it is your an adult and the teenage games are far behind you he needs to step up aswell just be open and honest let him kno how you feel
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (15 July 2009):
Tell him just what you said in here if your age is what you say it is your an adult and the teenage games are far behind you he needs to step up aswell just be open and honest let him kno how you feel
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