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Archived questions from: 3 May, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

She's about 15 years older than me, and I really fancy her, should I just talk to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

3 May 2008 (M) - A woman i fancy (although she doesn't know it) has recently started looking at me when i enter a room and holding her look for a few seconds. When i look she does look away. I told her friend that i fancied her as i was too shy to tell her, but si...

Am I in love or is it an obsession I have?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, am i in love or obsessed? I've liked this guy (for the purpose of this, lets call him mr x)for nearly a year now, that was when i first met him. It became clear to me how much i liked mr x straight away, but then mr x just wasn't inte...

I'm turning 19 this week and I've never even been in a relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - I'm not sure why i'm writing this, but here goes. I'm turning 19 this week and i've never even been in a relationship! Back in school i'd fall for the guys i couldn't have and after 3 years of not allowing myself to fall for anyone, i made a mistak...

He is not sure about anything. I can't marry anyone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - We are dating for 6 years, Having a Nice and strong relationship.He loves me very much there is no confusion is this. Now my parents are after my life, they have a marriage proposal for me now. When I talked about this to him he said go and marry to ...

Are we only friends who like to flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - I'm friends with this guy, we both are in high school and I think we are just friends but lately I don't know anymore. -I make dirty jokes to him and he smiles and says you wish -His pupils do seem kinda big when we talk -He slaps me gently wh...

I am shy and stutter when this boy is near, what should I say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - how I feel. Kay. So here goes everything. I really like this guy, right? But he doesn't notice me. And thinks i'm wierd. Plus, his girlfriend just broke up with him. I think he's probably the coolest person i know. And he's uber hot. Idk. I...

I thought he did not want me anymore so I told his cousin I liked him. I was wrong, how can I make it right again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 127 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - well like a few months ago me and this boy were getting really close, on the phone every night for like 2 hours and everything, and then it went down to like one night a week and i felt like he didn't really want me anymore and so i did the stupid ...

I like this guy and my friend likes him too. I don't want to ruin my friendship, please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - Okayy my friend just confided in me that she lkes this guy but what she doesnt know is that i like him too. And he likes the both of us but he says he likes me more and he helped with my paper round and he was putting his arm round me and hold...

Do the English think of my race as relationship material? Is the different background a hindrance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - I am a fairly attractive Indian woman in mid twenties residing in England for good i guess. I am very focused at this point on my goals and career and have got friendly and positive approach in life in general. I am pretty much new in dating sc...

Free and single, but why does everyone let me down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

3 May 2008 (M) - I am now free and single, what im unsure of is why i keep finding people who say that they will meet me or call me later etc, and then i hear absolutely nothing. Its happened so many times that i just expect it now,(i feel i just know) how can i ...

We are in love, but she is a Catholic and I am a Protestant. Should I convert?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

3 May 2008 (M) - Am in love with this lady who loves me back. Trouble is that I really dont know where our relationship is going because she has issues with me being a Protestant yet she is Catholic. Question one: Is it wise for me to convert for the sake of the ...

He isn't one to think himself highly enough to pursue a girl?!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - Ok i like this guy and i was talking to his friend and i told him that i liked his friend and that i gave him my number. Well i havent heard from him and been almost a month and we still email each another on myspace when hes on which is veryly ...

Does he see me as a woman or just his student?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - God!I'm so confused the way a teacher act to me.. I don't know if he see me as a woman or he see me as his student?I want help is he flirting me or not? I'm gone tell you some things to help me if he does or not?:When we are at the corridor he alwa...

Boyfriend wants space to see if he's happier or less happy without me? What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. A week ago he said he needs some space to decide whether he's happier with or without me. I admit that I have been picking fights almost weekly and that probably pushed him away. He said this ...

I'm not looking for a girlfriend, but, I'm not sure if she really likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 128 days ago

3 May 2008 (M) - I was sorts dating this girl ad everything was going fine until I brought the age difference between us and I think she is using that agaisnt me to tell me she is not interested. I talked to her about it and I told her that I really like her a lot. ...

There's something special about him but he's unpredictable! Should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 127 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - I have been dating a man for 9 months. He is very connected to my spirit. We are very compatible. We are so much alike. He has said he loves me. I love him too. Everything is perfect when we are together, we have such a great time...it's just that ...

Are these signs he's blatantly flirting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - We met twice a year and a half ago, and since then we've keeping in touch by email. At first he was more like friendly (well we are friends, as nothing else has happened) but in his notes he's called me one of his favorite ladies down here (the guy ...

Why does he love me hot and heavy for awhile, only to be cold to me later?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - I met this guy who is my same age (45) on internet dating service. We had everything in common, get along great. He pursued me, and acted crazy about me. He has told me he loves me many times. He surprised me and bought me a razor phone, and I dont ...

Why couldn't he get it to stay up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - I'm with someone new. I like him, its not all about sex, so this isn't all that important. We tried to have sex the other morning and he couldn't get it to stay up. He said it's not me, but then what is it? ...

He said when we make love that it's emotional for him. What did he mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - My boy friend and I just got back together, and we made love like we always do. Sex with him is amazing! We discussed a lot of things today and he mentioned that when we made love it was emotional for him. I didn't understand that comment...so I ...

This virgin gives me clues that she's sexually curious but I'm joining the Marines. I need intimate satisfaction!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

3 May 2008 (M) - Hello. I have a pondering yet mentally challenging question for me. I've had a pretty healthy sex life up to about last August when my ex broke up with me. Ive gotten over the past and the pain of the break up over time. At my job there is a girl ...

How do you approach a guy when he's with a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 127 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - I saw the cutest guy in the mall the other day and he was with a friend. I was with 2 other girls. They told me he was looking at me, you know, in that way. How do you approach a guy when he is with a friend?? I imagine it would take some balls- ...

He's controlling but I'm afraid to be on my own because I have BPD, I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm 26 years old and I've been involved with a controlling man for over 4 years now. However we have only been physically together for 1 month of it. I know it sounds crazy but we met over the internet right after my mother was murde...

We have a love/hate relationship but how does he really feel about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - Me and this guy are friends and when we're alone or not with out normal group of friends, we get along for the most part. But then when we get around our group of friends, we play argue a lot, well its serious sometimes but we don't mean what we ...

I don't want to make a mistake, and I'm sure this isn't a great way to start a ''new friendship ''

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - I use to be pretty close with one of my guy friends, (I think it's now safe to call him that) I cared for him alot, but for reasons beyond my control I was never able to actually be with him. He was off doing his own thing (with other girls) and I ...

How can I treat this girl like a princess at the Prom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

3 May 2008 (M) - I've got a friend to take to prom. I like her a little, and she wanted to go with me because she said she's relaxed with me, and I know how to treat girls. She's obviously heard good stuff about me. But I've never been to a prom before, and i don't ...

We've been friends for a long time, but how do I know if she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 128 days ago

3 May 2008 (M) - Me and this girl have been friends for long time but past year separated because of different schools. How do I know if she likes me? I do not want to blow our friendship. She enjoys my company, and where ever she sees me she will stop to talk. She...

How do I stop this obsession, and finally close this chapter in my life, once and for all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - I hope i can get some advice without anyone thinking i'm crazy :) I've been with my boyfriend just over 2 years. We have a fantastic relationship. I love him dearly. About six months before we got together, he had just got out of a 3 year relatio...

Is it better for a mother to lie to their child's face, than confess?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

3 May 2008 (M) - My mom and I have been very close throughout the years. Up until she started looking at my emails and msn chats. I lost alot of repect for her, but kept her in my heart. Boy loves his mama. We started this online game a while ago, and we played toge...

Is it so weird for a girl to date a guy if he's shorter than her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

3 May 2008 (?) - I want people's opinion on this. Is it weird to like someone who is shorter than me? I'm a girl, he's boy, we're both 15. Some people think it's weird for a girl to be taller then a guy in a relationship. What do you think? (I may date him soon too...

She never says, 'I love you' back to me, am I being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

3 May 2008 (M) - This is a quick question. When i tell my gf i love her, she always replies with only "you too". Does she really mean it or am i acting too paranoid?...