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Archived questions from: 11 May, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

It was anonymous, but I feel kinda guilty and scared that he'll know it was me, did I do something awful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - There's this website where you upload pictures (photoblog). A guy I used to be friends with, a long time ago, had written a lot about me, 'cos he was obsessed with me back then. I had written stuff to him there also, because he was a friend of mine, ...

Can projecting a bad conscience ruin my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (M) - Help!!! I have been in the most perfect relationship for circa 18 months now with a girl that means everything in the world to me! I really love her with all my heart! Then 2 days ago I was at this birthday party (with my girlfriend) where also my e...

He told me the all the other girls he's had sex with, even with out a condom, never got pregnant

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - Ok...so i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 14, we've known each other and been with each other for a long time...and my boyfriend isn't a virgin. He says he lost it when he was young and has had sex with other girls ever sence...but he wants to have sex ...

Which of the four should I choose?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - Okay so this boy loves me, well says he loves me, and he's also my ex. This other boy says he misses me and stuff, which is another ex, and this other kid always says he loves me but we're really close and we hangout alot, and then there's this ...

I need some tips about prom night and a campout, please.

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11 May 2008 (F) - I'm going to prom with my friend's brother. He's really nice and flirty. We aren't going out but...I'm not sure what will happen on prom night. He's 2 years older than me. It's my prom. My friend thinks that on prom night she will drive me and anot...

My boyfriend's friend wont give us any time to be alone!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - Ok well my boyfriend's friend is always around us and he always pushes me out of everything just to be with my boyfriend. He also spends to much time with him when i would love to spend time with my boyfriend. Like a week ago i was talking to my bo...

My boyfriend masturbates while I am asleep! What can we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - Just found out my bf masturbates daily when I'm asleep, but he always says he's not horny when I ask for sex. When I talked to him about it he just said he can't help it, he gets horny at about 2 or 3 in the morning and doesn't want to wake me (I ...

Is he supposed to call if he's casually dating others? Do I call him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - We talked a lot while eating and we were quieter during the movie. We got to see each other after more than one month so it was a little bit strange first but then we warmed up. After four hours together, we had to say good bye but while he was on ...

Unbearable truth....do I move on or wait for a cheater to reform?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

11 May 2008 (M) - I am 38 and my ex gf is 23 going on 24. We had been together for over a year and a half. Chance meeting at a bar and I wasn't looking for someone this young. Firstly, she's geniunely naive, stupid and weak. I slept with her the first night. I had ...

I'm heartbroken and frustrated, will I ever find love again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

11 May 2008 (M) - Will I ever find love again? I thought that I had finally found my soul mate and after almost 2.5 years together she decided that she wanted to be friends. I know she got frustrated that we weren't engaged yet and I wanted to and told her this but i ...

How can I get past him cheating on me twice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for over two years. Within the first six months he cheated on me twice, just kissing two other girls. I found out after about a year, and we decided to try and work things out. I have forgiven him, and am trying ...

Looking for my first relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (M) - I am a 20 year old shy guy from Southampton looking for his first relationship, I am loving and kind who would be described by his friends as a gentleman. I do chat to girls and they seem to like me but there always comes a point in the ...

I am questioning my same sex relationship now that the 'Honymoon Period' is over. Can you advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - hi. i just need some advice. im 23 and have been in a same sex relationship for just on 2 years now. iv been extremely happy in the relationship and to be honest could not think of there being any better. I'v been in love with my partner exlusive...

My boyfriend has an addiction to amateur porn, is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I are both 25. We have been dating for 4 months but he has an addiction to amatuer porn. On top of this I found he had a profile on a dating website which is just for sex. He says he only uses it to see amatuer porn and he delet...

Why hasn't he let me meet his family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - ok ppl i neva did dis b4 but i need your advice on something ok i have been wit this boy for basically 4 months already n we are in love we have a great relationship we neva fight or anything but im so confused of why i he hasnt let me meet his ...

My long-term boyfriend's condoms have mysteriously disappeared. Am I over analysing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - i thought i remembered a condom or two left in the condom drawer of my boyfriend's(3 years with him) aparment and also possibly opened wrappers from us there (just being lazy about throwing out the wrapper)...i actually don't 100% remember but i ...

My friends say she's cheating on me but she denies it. Who do I trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (M) - Im very worrid, I have been told by people I trust very much that my partaner is cheating on me. She is denying it, but i dont think so many people can be lying. Also she was going to the cinima with another one of her freinds and someone said to ...

My boyfriend has moved abroad without considering me, should I follow him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has moved from the UK to the US a month ago - something he has had planned for 2 years. I met him 14 months ago and we fell in love quickly but he never once considered whether I was able to come with him and decided that he could not ...

He was acting like a doormat but now things have changed and I feel like a doormat! Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. I know things change as you become more comfortable with each other, but it seems he has totally changed! He was the type of boyfriend that if I told him to jump, he would say how high. If ...

We keep breaking up and I don't know why I keep going back?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend have dated for almost 5 months... and we have broken up 4 times already over stupid things. but i dont like to argue with him and i dont. but I dont know why i keep goin back to him. But I know im in love....

I want to trust my new girlfriend, I don't want to get hurt though

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (M) - I need help in my relationship, because I keep worrying bout getting hurt again and I know my new girlfriend will never hurt me. I want to let her into my heart and break down my walls but how do I do this, please help before its to late we dont ...

I've trouble finding a boyfriend - what am I doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - I have the worst trouble finding a boyfriend. I am almost 21 and still single (yeah very pathetic hahaha!) I just want to know what I'm doing wrong. I can be shy but I'm not as shy as I used to be. Is there any fool proof ways to get a guy? And is...

Where else could I meet girls so that I know for definite that they are single? I've trust issues.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (M) - I already posted a question at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/fine-except-im-scared-to-ask-out-girls.html, thanks for the advice, however, it didn't quite come out the way I intended. The actual problem is that I have an inability to tru...

He broke up with me, how do I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago, he was all i had and im feeling exremely lonely and want him back, how can i get him back? ...

Will she go back to her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (M) - hi. ive met this girl and we get on great and i really like her. the problem i have shes just recently come out of a long relationship. it ended because he slept with someone behind her back. that was a while ago but she took him back but she sed ...

I want to date and gain more experience, when should I lose my virginity? It's stigmatising me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - I'm 23 and I'm still a virgin. Without getting into too much history, I've had one boyfriend. We're not together anymore and the furthest physically we ever went was kissing. I'm a fairly sexual person, having read romance novels for most of my l...

The two brothers have feelings for me and I don't know what to do since I have feelings for both of them as well...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - I'm having a really difficult time I've been knowing these two guys for a while now and they are brothers well I've always had a crush on them both one is 16 and very mature and the other is 20 also mature I'm 21 and I talk to the 16 year old more ...

Does my jealous ex want me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - please help? I was going out with this guy i broke up with him cuz of his jealousy and anger problems. however he never stopped calling until one day i met with him and i had a friend with me who he is a guy.. my ex started getting mad tell...

My boyfriend is the least popular in the class and I have to face nasty comments for dating him! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is the least popular kid in the class and everybody is like,"ur really going out with him?!" and I don't know what to do because it's really bugging me and I dont want to dump him. What should I do?...

He isn't shy in e-mails, but totally shy in real-life. Why? How can I get him to loosen up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is really mushy in emails and stuff, but not so much in real life. What should I do to get him to stop being so shy?...

I have a huge crush on my older previous mentor, but she thinks it would be a conflict. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - I am a 30 year old married women and I am hopelessly in love with a much older married woman (60) who used to me my mentor at work. I recently left my job because I thought it would be a conflict of interest if we ended up getting together. I don't ...

She's acting a little differently than usual, and doesn't say I love you as much...Why is that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

11 May 2008 (M) - Hello aunts and uncles you see i have a question.I have this amazing girl! (she's 17 i'm 18) she is always says i love you but not as she used to say it idk maybe it's just me but she would always say to that she will call me but she forgets ...

She stole him from me and I don't plan on ever talking to her again. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - Hey well ive been seeing this guy since august last year. and well basically my best friend has taken him of me. she liked some guy in her work he doesnt like her . She knows how much i like this guy and she pure hits on him and stuff infront of...

She said it was 99% right, but something was missing...What does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

11 May 2008 (M) - Hi all, Over the last month I have been in touch with a woman from a dating website. We have clicked really well on emails and then on the phone when we can be on for up to 3 hours at a time. We both felt that we 'get eachother'. We met today f...

She says she really likes me, but she loves that guy and says she can't get over him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

11 May 2008 (M) - Basically I've been having this on and off relationship with someone for 8 months now. The problem is she was/is in a long distance relationship with someone from another country that she only sees once a year. He was her first b/f, practica...

What's a corsage, where would I get one, and how much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

11 May 2008 (M) - People suggested for prom a corsage. What is it? How much? Where from in uk?...