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Archived questions from: 30 May, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My divorced BF wants to take our relationship to the next level, how will I tell him I'm a virgin at 38?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hi I think my divorced boyfriend wants to take our relationship to the next level but i dont know how to tell him i am still a virgin at 38, what do i say to him as i am not sure how to tell him, i dont want him to think there is something wrong ...

Kissing... a big problem. Any help with the tecnique?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I have tried thousand times but till date am just a loser.though my bf have been very supportive and helped me but i just can't give him a smooch. Its not that i don't like his taste,though it was a problem earlier but now its been long time tha...

Am I being too picky? I think he's capable of doing some of this household maintenance by himself...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I'm in my early 40's. I am an Aries and a giving person who loves to make others happy. I was married at 25 for 8 yrs, and divorced. I have since dated 2 men each for 3 yrs and the one presently now for 2 years. The first BF had a drug problm, the ...

She was drawn to me because of my guitar playing. Should I send her song lyrics, nothing too sappy, just light and funny! I don't want to push her away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I was dating this girl for a couple months, doing the long distance thing while she was at college. When she came home from school she said she didn't think we should see eachother because she didn't want to get attached. I txted her a litt...

A relationship failure should not discourage us, life goes on!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5815 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Being taken for a fool. When i was 16 I met a man of 21 and thought he was the bees knees. He lived at home with his parents and every time i phoned him his dad answered he got the message that I lefta nd every time his mum answered my call he never...

Knowing about her past makes me feel inadequate, but I love her! So why do I feel like running away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - My problems kinda about jealousy... So i'm really, really close with this girl. we're not ''official'' but only because I wanna give it time, we do everything a normal young teen couple would do. My problem is with her past...It isn't that sl...

I got a present for my boyfriend! Should I mention it or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I got a present for my boyfriend. I'm so excited about giving it to him, but at the same time, I don't want to tell him what it is until I see him. Do you think it's annoying that I told him I got him a present but I can't tell him what it is? Is it ...

When we found out that we both liked the same girl, his exact words were, "let the competition begin". I'm furious with him!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - My best friend met a girl last week. He told me, "You two would really suit each other". I shrugged it off, he always says things like this, besides it takes alot for me to fancy someone. Im sure ive been a whole 2 years without liking a soul ...

We'll meet as friends but I'm hoping there's a chance to win him back, how do I play it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - We went out on 5 dates, then he met someone else, but didn't tell me for a while. I didn't contact him for 3 weeks, but phoned him yesterday, and we had a really good chat, and said we'd meet up for coffee... but no date was arranged. (We do get ...

He left his wife and is now begging me to give him another chance, I'm confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Last year i got involved with a married man at work, yes stupid i know, anyway it went on for a few months before he decided that he'd made a commitment to his wife and he should give it another go, so we broke up. However now he has left his wife...

Am I being unfair if left my long term GF in the middle of all these trials in her life? I'm in love with another woman, who is married.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm really torturing my mind now and I do not know how to move-on quickly and forget all this emotional pain that I'm experiencing. I have two (2) concerns. 1. I'm in a relationship right now with my girlfriend and we are already 10...

Is my boyfriend still in love with his ex, he says he is unable to commit to me, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I'm going out with a guy who describes himself as "emotionally unavailable" and doesn't want to commit to being in a relationship. He said he's not sure what it is exactly but it could be a combination of some or all of the following: -He's sti...

So, do I tell her, risk a very painful let down, or leave it, and let my friend go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Hi, So for months now I've been absolutely madly in love with a girl who I'm very good friends with... She's had a long term boyfriend who's just broken up with her, and I really want to tell her. Two problems: 1. She's way out of my league....

Is it wrong for me to date my friends' brother even if she said it was ok?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hey everyone, Here is what is going on. I am really good friends with this girl, we will call her Erin. We have so much fun together and always love being in each other's company and everything. However, she has a 19 year old brother. I am a...

When is my best shot at taking the plunge and asking her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5818 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I like this really pretty girl. She is really beautiful, no joke. I used to be on the heavy side, but after meeting her and becoming her friend, I have been motivated to lose weight and get in the perfect shape. I wanted to do the because I wanted ...

Should I call or just wait? Help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I haven't talked to my bf for about 3 days. We didn't get I a fight but I was kinda mad cuz when I called him he said he'd call back but never did. Then we text that same day for a little bit but havnt spoken or texted since. Well its been three ...

He's 25 and I am 16... should I stay with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i'm in love with this guy. we're in love with eachother. i'm 16, he's 25, almost 26. we're like, almost 10 years age difference. we wanta get married n 2 years, right after i finish highschool, i wanta take a year off after that anyway, and move ...

I'm crazy about him but he likes another girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - lately i've been crazy about this guy that i really liked but seems like he doesnt like me that way anymore. we stopped talking like he used. and he started hangin out with other girls. so im guessin that im just hurtin myself. but my feelings are ...

He treats me like a child and is controlling

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i go out with this guy who i thought id really like. i had fancied him for ages as he's really gorgeous and kind. about a year ago we started dating. at first it was absolutely fantastic and the sex was the best ive ever had, but about six months ...