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Archived questions from: 2 May, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He's all over me, what does all this attention mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - I've know this guy in my 9th grade PE class, and I don't know whether he likes me or not, because everyday when we come to class he will come sit right by me and start talking to me. He's considered an annoying person to everyone because he has a mi...

I love my husband, but I've got my self involved with another man...a little too deep, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - I feel completely trapped. I am 32, my husband is 38 and I have been married for 10 years now, and although my marriage is good and solid, it has survived many rough patches and there´s always been love and affection between me and my husband. I fell...

How can I find out a guys email address that I really like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Hey i have been liking a guy since long now, and i am getting frustrated, and i want to take this to another level. I would like to know if there is any way i can get to know a guys email if i know his name. The university he studies, his state and ...

All guys adore me and find me the hottest, but would not approach me...are they totally crazy?!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Well i am 19 years old and i am studying in this highly prestigious university in the United Kingdom. I am the most popular girl in class and my classmates think that i am a stuck up, attitude carrying show off. All this is said behind my back. ...

Why would he take a condom with him if he didn't expect to have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend went away to Seattle then to california to see his friend 2 weeks ago and he got back monday. When i went over last night i went to get the toothpaste out of his bag where he keeps all the toothpaste etc which he had taken with him, ...

What should I do about this girl in church? I think she may have a boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

2 May 2008 (M) - okay, iv'e met this really pretty cuban girl about 2 months ago while we were preaching. Her cousin and her kept whispering and looking at me and well im not sure but i think she likes me, but im stressing out cause i can't figure her out. In ...

Should I wait for her to break up with her current boyfriend? She loves him but we have a history together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

2 May 2008 (M) - I dated a girl in college during my senior year for about 6 months. I ended it since I felt I needed to get out and have a crazy time during my last months in college and felt she would hold me back (she was underage). She didn't take it well, since ...

I wrote the girl of my dreams a song. Is it okay that I give it to her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

2 May 2008 (M) - I wrote the girl of my dreams a song and i plan on giving it to her today. I am really nervous that she is going to think its lame and think i am gay or something. She knows i am writing her one but she doesn't know it is about how great of a ...

Is it too soon for a new relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend just broke up with after 8 years, he was treating me like dirt towards the end when he felt like it. I got talking to this other guy and he seems nice. It is finished with me and my ex just 2 weeks, should i meet up with the other guy?...

Is it wrong to kiss him at the party? I don't want to be seen as a slut!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Hi i am going to a party tonight, and one of my lad friends is going. we were talking of going out last week, but decided our feelings were not strong enough. Anyway, we have both agreed that if the moment is right, then we might kiss tonight, but ...

I thought he liked me but now he avoids me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 163 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - well i really like a guy and ive heard he likes me too and he has ever since he met me, but i never gave him a chance before and now i like him but whenever i try to talk to him he doesnt want me to and his friends say that he doesnt want me to have ...

I am very inexperienced with sex and relationships, and was raped 6 years ago by a bf, now I've started dating a new guy...but I need some advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Hi I've never posted here before, and I kind of need some advice. I'm in my late 20's, and am going out on a third date with a guy I've known for a couple of months. We get along really well and really dig each other. The thing is, I know that in ...

Will he expect me to sleep with him? We've been sex texting and I sent him a raunchy picture of myself...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

2 May 2008 (?) - I have been sex texting (quite explicit) a guy and sent him a raunchy picture of myself. He is taking me out for dinner next week. Do you think he will be expecting me to sleep with him as I've sent him these raunchy messages? I have already been ...

I am driving myself insane wondering if am I a fool to think he will not repeat his past as soon as we get into problems?!?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Really need some unbiased advice. Sorry this is long, feel you need enough information as possible. I can't stop worrying about whether or not my partner will cheat on me eventually. I am finding it so hard to trust him, but I can't break up w...

I'm confused as to how she feels about me. Any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

2 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm really confused as to where I stand with a girl I've met recently. I met her through some mutual friends, and over time we have become friends. I was immediately attracted to her, and we have always been able to talk pretty well. We are alwa...

Is he not interested, or is this a normal 'guy' thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Hello,, My boyfriend doesn't seem to remember much of what i say to him. I find i have to repeat things I've said before. Could this mean he's not interested in things i say? Or is this a normal guy thing? thanks....

How Do I Play Hard To Get In a 6 month Relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Hello Friends, please advise me on what I should do. I met a man 6 months ago and we fell deeply in love. Or at least I fell very hard for him and told him this right away, thanks to my vodka tonic. What I liked about him was that he is extr...

My friend is too involed with a guy who I know is no good. Help me convince her please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Stacy is my best friend. She started seeing a guy 9 months ago but i know from my personal experience that he is not a good boy. I know he will cheat on her because i know his past quite well. But even though i told her about it, she did not list...

How can ask out the girl who I love, but am not sure if she feels the same way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

2 May 2008 (M) - I'm 14 but i've never been with a girl before, but over the years i have liked many girls but been too afraid to ask them out. Recently however, there has been someone who i liked and i have the impression they liked me, at the time she was goin...

He gets very secretive with his phone and his laptop, Is he cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - I'm living with my boyfrend. I suspect that he's cheating on me. He turns his phone off when we're at home together, or puts it on silent. He gets very secretive with his phone and his laptop, especially when he's checking his email, facebook, etc....

Why do I feel this way ,and miss and still love my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - I had a tramatic and emotionally abusive relationship that i didnt realize until i was pregnant. A year and a half later i terminated the pregnancy mid February, and i thought from then on i also terminated him from my heart. See, i was with him ...

Should you always persue a crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - I am really confused about this. I just don't know if one should always pursue a crush. I believe that since you only live once, you should most definitely go for it. The worst that can happen to you is he'll reject you. But at least then you won't ...

Will anyone want to date this 20 year old virgin?, I'm beginning to think not

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - I'm nearly 21 years old and I've never been in a relationship with a guy. I've never even been kissed and it's getting thoroughly embarrassing. I feel like I'm missing out on key life experiences. I know 20 is still young, but the thing is I have no ...

He was jealous of my past, now he's left me because of it, will he realize what he's lost?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - He left me, again!!! I'm so angry and hurt!!!!! I don't even want to get back together with him anymore (OK, I do, but it's not a priority). He broke up with me because of his jealousy towards my past, because he got mad and insecure about e...

I feel rejected because my ex is with a younger woman. Is he self destructing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Hello - two months ago I broke up with my 40 year old boyfriend but I hoped it would just be a separation. I haven't contacted him and was surprised that he hadn't contacted me but now I have found out that he is seeing a 26 year old girl. I am ...

Is my girlfriend cheating or is she just selfish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (M) - So I've been dating a girl for more than a year, and we plan to live together soon. We live on different sides of the country and met when she was in town on a business trip, but manage to meet up quite frequently, often for several days at a time. ...

Does my ex secretly still has feelings for me even though she has a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

2 May 2008 (M) - My ex girlfriend hasn't talked to me a whole lot since we broke up a few months ago, but agreed to stay friends, she found a new guy about 2 months ago and we still texted each other but very little. Starting 2 days ago she has texted me ALOT, ...

I had sex with him but I don't think he knows I like him, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - A lot of guys that I am attracted to aren't really outgoing when it comes to talking to me- like for example, the boy that I'm crushing on (I know he likes me, and having sex with him proved it) won't come up to me and talk to me! I kind of have to ...

I'm dating her but I don't understand her!! How can I figure her out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

2 May 2008 (M) - Hello. I've been seeing a girl for about 8 months now, and to be honest, I just don't feel like I know her very well at all. Maybe I'm just being obtuse but, there are things about her I don't understand/know how to deal with, and I'd REALLY a...

Casper the friendly ghost! I scare women without wanting to.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

2 May 2008 (M) - Hi all, I am very well educated, strong, hard-working, fairly wealthy and decent looking, in my 50's yet have been without sex or companionship for almost six months. I go to dances and other social events and try to connect and hookup, but I ...

Why won't my boyfriend introduce me to people?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - My b/f frequently fails to introduce me to women we bump into, that he knows personally. This makes me feel like he's embarrassed to be with me or he's trying to play down the fact that we're involved. He says it's because some people aren't ...

Do you think he'll cheat? He has his cell phone off! I don't even know if it counts as cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Me and my BF are kind of on a break... He went out of town and is returning on Saturday. Just before going away yesterday, we fought and he dumped me. I had seen him a few days before. he almost criend when he said he'd miss me. I gave him my...

Can there be any trust when both partners have cheated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 164 days ago

2 May 2008 (M) - My girl friend and have been together for two years. I've never met someone like her she's sweet and caring. But she's 18yr.s old and I'm 21 I had little experience before her but I was her first kiss. I told her two things I could deal with high ...