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Archived questions from: 28 May, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He says he loves me but doesn't really show it. Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Ok.. So I've known my "bf" for a long time. We used to date about 2 years ago, stopped talking. And now we started dating again. We have been dating for about 2 months now. He is nice and everything. But he has a problem. He doesn't call me much. ...

I need last minute confidence on giving him my lap dance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

28 May 2008 (?) - Hey guys help needed! I need last minute confidence on giving my lap dance. i'm planning on giving him one tomorrow night! i just know i'll feel silly, as though i'm acting sexy but he's just thinking i'm totally not sexy, or just over-doi...

I've chased men away before, now I'm interested in a new guy and need some advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I really need some advice on my problem. Well, Im 24 and Ive got good job and lots of friends and Im pretty. But Im single. Now, when I meet boys I like, inside my head Im telling myself to play it cool, but my actions and words do exactly the o...

I think he wants to love me, but isn't capable of doing so!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had ongoing issues for the full term of our relationship. We have been together for almost 8 years and have a beautiful daughter. The way he is behaving towards me is causing doubts in my heart as to whether he really loves ...

I am really confused... my boyfriend has said he'll turn over a new leaf.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Been in a relationship for about 5 years. We attended the same university. In school,he asked me out and always told me he loved me.I decided to give it a shot after a year of being friends with him. I told him i needed time to fall in love with ...

I fell for one of my best mates. I don't know how to ask her out.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Okay, well I guess I'll start from the beginning... About a month ago, I fell for one of my best mates, also female. I've told her and I think she feels the same way. I would rather not ask her, as I've inquired about her current crush, and she stil...

Is there hope for a future relationship with her, even though we're not in contact now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - hi i was wondering wot anyone makes of this. i was sort of seeing a girl for the last month and for some reason i totally fell for her straight away. its so weird because im really picky and i told myself id never let myself get in2 someone ...

What should I do to keep my relationship fresh and get his attention more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I have been a relationship for 6 months: 2 months of staying close and 3 months being far away. We have a long distance relationship because I have to work in another country for 6 months. I have 3 more months to work and then I'll be back. Norm...

Guys, have you broken up with a girl, then want to get back together? Girls, am I delusional or should I find someone who is ready for commitment?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Posted this earlier but no replies...really hope to get some advice here! My ex-bf and I had been together for almost a year. I want commitment, he doesn't want commitment....thus we did the classic girl nags at guy for commitment/guy i...

I want him back but there's religion, third party and character differences.. help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - My BF and I for 2 years always fight for petty reasons. We belong to different religions. We have huge character differences. His parents have long wanted him to severe ties with me but he risked it all for me and still pursued the relationship. We ...

She won't talk about sex and I'm extremely unhappy and thinking about ending the relationship.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - Okay so I'm almost 18 and my girlfriend is 15 we have about a 2 year 9 month age difference and we have been going out for about 10 month now. Now on to the question I feel that I'm a very sexual person and I know she's a little younger then me and ...

I've never really gotten over my ex! I'm engaged but still flirting with the ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I've been with my bf for 3 years and we are engaged but i have never really gotten over my Ex. And whats worse he i like my best mate, and hes friends with my bf. I love my bf to death, but i keep thinking of my ex, and everytime i see him i just ...

What do I do about Ms. X? Is my boyfriend cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Help, anyone, please? Before my bf and I got together, he was wooing his friend, MS. X. She told me that he’s dumping him and he don’t want him. I know she’s still hung up on him coz she flirts with him in front of me. It’s not like Ms. X and I ar...

Should I say goodbye to him or take a leap of faith and tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Right, I have been what I think is friends with benefits (A)with someone for nearly 4 years. I really really like them. However, after getting sick of teh arrangement I went out and got myslef a really nice guy, really solid would do anything for ...

Me and my best friend both fancy the same guy!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I really fancy this guy , I mean I really do ... but my best friend fancies him too, I want to ask him out but I don't wanna ruin mine and her relationship. Please help!!! Thanks, Love becka....

We're now dating after a year of being 'friends with benefits' but he doesn't talk or initiate things, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - We made things official between me and my long-time friends with benefits. He asked me. But for the past 12 months it's felt like he only asked me out to stop any chance of me going off with anyone else at the same time. He never calls, emai...

Is he likely to call?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Hello, I have a dating dliema and would really appreciate your advice or thoughts! Late last year this guy I know asked me out for a drink, and as Ive always secretly fancied him a little bit, I was happy to go. We had a great time but he tol...

What are positive ways to get male attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I hate that I need it, but I've come to realize that when I'm not dating someone, I obsess about dating someone, anyone. I don't particularly want to date anyone. I don't have the time, and there isn't anyone I like. Still I find that I need male ...

I feel like my youth is passing by, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - So I have an issue that is bothering me and have been thinking about a lot lately. I am almost 23 years old and within the past 5 years haven't had a serious relationship and haven't had sex. I am almost done with University and then will need t...

Is it that she doesn't want me but doesn't want anyone else to have me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - I split up with my girlfriend almost a year ago after I found out she was cheating on me. The break up was quite hard as we lived together but although she tried to keep in touch I managed to avoid her. Recently I started replying to her emails and ...

Why's he behaving like such an arsehole?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 1 1/2 years broke up with me last week because he "suddenly" realized that I have a son and he didn't want to be a part of it. He has made some sorry excuses in the past for pushing me away, but then he always comes back with the ...

Guys, how can I get him to understand I shouldnt play second fiddle to his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5821 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - My current bf and I have dated for 3 months. He was best friends with his ex for 10 years before they dated for 2. She still wants him but he reassures me it's way over for them (he's had gf's between us). He wants to have a friendship with her. ...

Argh! My boyfriend is planning to go out partying when I'm teaching!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is so... argh! I can't quite describe just how angry he makes me! See, I broke his trust, because last year I told him I wouldn't talk to this certain guy who used to have a crush on me anymore. But the thing is said guy is in my cla...

I'm so nervous! How does one kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - i am going 2 a swimming party w/ my bf this weekend.we plan 2 hold hands, hug,and kiss. but neither 1 of us have ever kissed anyone b4 and i am really nervous.i dont know wut im supposed 2 do and nuthing is giving me good answers.plz reply soon!!...

Why is his family trying to split us up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I am in a very serious relationship with a boy. We are engaged and everything. One thing really bothers me though... His family is constantly trying to get him to talk to or get back with one of his ex's (and If it doesn't work with one they move to ...

I hate everything about my boyfriend but I love him more than anything in the world... should I leave him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I hate everything about my boyfriend but I love him more than anything in the world... should I leave him? I used to trust him, I used to feel comfortable with him in public, I used to enjoy having him around, I used to like doing things for him, ...

Is it normal to be jealous of your man watching porn?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Hay qupid is it normal to be jealouse of your man watching porn? It seems to make me feel unwanted, i dont mind if he does it when im not around and dont let me know bout it but it makes me feel like he need somone prettier or im not pretty enought ...

How can I play this one cool and have some fun?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - My BF had oral sex with another gal. He thinks I don't know about it and yet he's acting guilty. I think I'm gonna have some fun with this instead of falling apart like most women would do. This oral sex happened at work. I need lots of ...

How fast is too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - HI , i met someone we get along great, he lives an hour away. We have been together a months. We are both finalizing our divorces but have been separeated for over a year. He said he wants to move to my town to be close to me and probably with me, ...

I want to tell her what I'm feeling and thinking but I'm rather worried that it will scare her off ... it's a dilemma.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - Hey all. Ok, this is something that has been praying on my mind over the past month or so, and not being one to tell people what I'm thinking I thought I'd bash it out here to get a general opinion. Ok, so well I'm 20, and have been seeing a g...

How can I bring up sex without making her feel like all I'm thinking about is sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - I have been dating this girl for about 3 months now and we have not gone much further than making out. I really like her and want to become more intimate with her. She seems to be a pretty shy person and i dont wanna make her feel uncomfortable. We ...

Can exes be best friends? I'm a bit bothered by this...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - Hey all, quick question for anyone listening, Do you think that its ok for ex's to be best friends? my new gf is bestfriends with her ex and it just makes me uneasy, she assures me that its all over between then but i still cant help but be bothered ...

Is he being honest with me over the reasons for our breakup?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I am devastated and I need an opinion...I met this guys 5 years ago while I was travelling. I fell for him and I believed he fell for me as well. It was my first relationship with an older man and because our cultures and language backgrounds were ...

Do I choose the jailbird or my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I have a dilemma, I have had this pen pal since 1995 I was 18 at the time, we've continued writing and became like best friends, he's 9 years older than me, anyway, this past February 2008, he sent me a ring and a card asking if I'd marry him, its ...