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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:We met twice a year and a half ago, and since then we've keeping in touch by email. At first he was more like friendly (well we are friends, as nothing else has happened) but in his notes he's called me one of his favorite ladies down here (the guy lives north) and the other one is a married lady he respects very much and with whom he worked while being here and when I met him.If I go to trips he tells me to enjoy but not have too much fun!If I tell him I'm sick or some kind of trouble he worries and cares, he updates me on his important things happening. Shares dirty jokes sometimes, which I like. Send me fetching pictures of him telling me "how about that?"He answers my messages as soon as he can. Recently he had to made a trip and I said if he was to keep in touch with me and he said definitely, and he had made his word!What U think is that his way of flirt or he cares, or what?
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reader, Ask oldersister +, writes (3 May 2008):
 What if he is flirting? Does it make a difference? Flirting or not, it's been over a year since you've seen him and don't have plans to see him again in the near future. A girl's gotta have her priorities and they don't include years of emails from a guy that lives in another state hoping that every email "means something". The reality is, he already decided over a year ago if he wanted to pursue something with you or not so where is he? I'm sure he likes you as a person and that he cares but what exactly does that do for you? Can he bring you soup if you're sick, pick you up when your car breaks down on the side of the road, take you out when you're feeling down, take you out to dinner when you want a night out? What difference does it really make if he flirts or doesn't flirt?! You are single and in your 30's, you aren't in some all-girls boarding school or in prison where your only access to the opposite sex is via computer. This is supposed to be the best years of your life and you should be enjoying them to the fullest. I have a great guy friend that lives in another state- he just called me up and wanted to know if we could meet in Vegas with some other friends for a weekend. My best friend lives in Mass. and I just spent the holidays there and I am flying back up when she has her baby in a couple of months. It's that simple, where is this guy? It's been a year and a half? If you like someone, friends or more, you make the effort to see them and invest in the relationship, you know? Anything else is a waste of time.
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reader, WiccanWonder  +, writes (3 May 2008):
 i think he either really likes you or just cares very deeply about you, it is very hard to answer a question like this as i know nothing about this person... but maybe you could visit him or something and see how things go from there.
Hope this helps
Love & Hugs
Good luck.
tasha x
p.s please dont message me saying im too young to answer this question!
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reader, Danielepew  + ♥, writes (3 May 2008):
 Maybe.
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