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Archived questions from: 7 May, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He told me he didn't want anything serious but his actions are contradicting himself. Is he playing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - Hello I am 26 years olds, and i have been dating this guy for like almost 3 months, I like him a lot, and I have strong feelings for him, we live one hour and a half away, he is very sweet with me, he caring, we normally see each other on Sunday,...

I'm starting to feel like he's just abandoning me! Could he just be busy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - im at a loose end here! a guy i have known for 8 years asked me out on a date, aparantly he has been wanting to ask me out for over a year. i went out with him and we got together. we were so in love! we have both had really bad relationships in the ...

He says he is seriously falling for me but has a girlfriend? Where do I stand?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - Hey, I really don't know what to do anymore.. I've liked this guy for over a year and hes likes me too. We were seeing each other a lot last summer nearly every day, was amazing. Only problem is hes got a gf... he was with her all last summer too....

I told him that I needed to work and he got really cold, visibly annoyed. What should I think of his attitude?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - Hello, Its exams period and the whole year has been very stressful as its the last undergrad uni year and we are both ambitious. We've been out together for more than a year now and before we were best friends for a year and a half. I love him...

Any ideas about what I can say when I call her? I just got her number...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

7 May 2008 (M) - Well I finally got this girl's phone number who I've had a crush on for more than 2 years... I said we should "catch up" and I'll call her. I know what I can say when I do call her, but I was wondering if someone had any input in this?...

Am I over-reacting or is he just stringing me along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - Ok, I really need some help. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now.I put up with alot like the fact that I havent met his parents who he says are racist whom he still lives with and other things.The big problem is I keep caughting him in ...

Why is he being so sweet? Could there be another reason?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 115 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - hi everyone i have a question. ok my bf can be very sweet at times but lately hes been 2 sweet like if im in pain hed be thr askin me if im ok. and in the morning he'll wake me up and ill be right next to him and he'll say to me you look so peaceful ...

He confessed that he's been sleeping with his ex, should I call off this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

7 May 2008 (?) - dear readers, i have a small problem that i jus wanted some advice on i've liked his guy for a few months now, we swapped numbers about 3 onths ago n since then hae been txtin, callin etc. we have slept together a few times. the other nyt i was ...

How can I change his mind? My ex says he has feelings for me but does not want a relationship at the moment.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - My ex and I still see and talk to each other a lot, nearly every day. He has told me he has feelings for me and we are still very close. One problem, although he is attracted to me, he says he does not want a relationship at the moment (with ...

His mother is a cheater and liar - does he take me the same way?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone My BF grew up in a broken family. His mother cheated on his father, she also lied couple of times. She tried to come back to his father many times (11years on and off), but only to use him and than go back to someone else. My BF ...

They're both amazing. Which do I date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 115 days ago

7 May 2008 (M) - Hi, i was seein three girls recently, one was my girlfriends for a year who i have broken up with now, because i was havin trouble with the realtionship for many months and decided to end it...after i broke up with her i started to see someone,...

Is he not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - he doesnt look me in the eye when we are talking...but when i turn away he looks at me for a couple of seconds..and when i turn back he looks for like a second..and turns back away..i like eye contact!...is he not interested? ...

How do I show him that I really care and am here for him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - ok here goes... ive been seing this guy for about 2 months...and he messaged me yesterday saying that the two people that he lives with are moving out...and told him that they'll speak to the landlord to see if he can have the lease but all of...

Is he leading me on? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 7 months and last month we had a massive argument, which stemmed from his ex girlfriend still texting him. Although i know he has no intention of ever being with her, I just overreacted and couldn't control my emotions ...

How can I get in contact with girls for friendship, romance & sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

7 May 2008 (M) - hi how i can get contact of girls for friend romance and sex....

The chemistry was great but I haven't heard from him since. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - Well I have been single for quite a while now and i have been trying to meet men. Well I met this guy on the internet like six months ago and i have been talking to him ever since. We had made plans to meet because we live only like a half hour from ...

My llife long friend introduced me to her ex boyfriend, now we're a couple, and it's created problems...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 116 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - A girl friend i've known almost all my life has always been in love with this one guy. They dated a while but it didn't work out because they both realized they're better off frends. After they broke up, she has been crying about him for about 10 y...

We have sex every week, secretly, and I'm falling for him, but I don't want to.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend but he's not with me. He only comes home once a year, and so me and friend had this moment of romance, but we're done having relationship...we make sex every week, in a secretly way... can you help me what should i do? I'm begi...

He says he can't handle my past, and he doesn't wanna lose me. He says I have to help him overcome this. My question is, how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - Hello, I've been posting about my boyfriend not being able to cope with my past. Recently, he had broken up with me, today we got back together. Please, help me help him. When I went to talk with him today, at first, he didn't wanna see me. H...

Pros and Cons....is he worth it? He's changed a few things, will he change them all?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 35 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend, 30: Pros: Buys me flowers. Cooks dinners time to time. Helps clean house, dishes, tends the yard. Tells me I'm beautiful almost every day and that he loves me. Always calls me. Wants marriage, babies, the works with me. Good looking...

I really can't tell if we are just friends or if I mean more to him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 115 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for about 10 years. Over time I have fallen in love with him. He knows how I feel and has told me he loves me too. We hang out all the time alone and with friends. When we are out he acts as if we are toge...

He's nervous when he talks to me...why is he acting like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - For the past year, I've been running into a crush at a local bar. I've known him for a while through a ex-friend (I can't ask my friend about him), but I never sat down and spoke to him. I would always say hi to him, and he would say hi back and ...

One partner wants sex every night, while the other wants it once or twice a week, what's the solution?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - One partner wants sex every night, while the other wants it once or twice a week, what's the solution?...

He says that relationships are bad and that they never work out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 116 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - Hey! Well i was just wondering if anyone could give me some much needed help. About two years ago, i went out with a guy for a few months, but it didn't really work out, but we stayed good friends and two years later he's now my best friend. ...

Why is it OK for girls to flirt with him, but he has issues if I talk to a guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 115 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has a lot of female friends, and he knows that some of them have crushes on him, and i'm cool with that, they'll never have him, but, recently he's noticed that one of my guy friends seems to have a crush on me or something, and he ...

How should I introduce the new man in my life to my teenage kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - Hi, how do you introduce a new man in your life to your teenage kids and how long should you wait before you do? I am getting divorced and have been separated for almost 2 years. I have met someone that is a great man. Thanks for your advice....

I never have a chance to get her by herself to tell her how I feel.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 116 days ago

7 May 2008 (M) - I was thinking of talking to this girl I've mentioned in previous responses. The big problem aside from the others mentioned, because I only see her one to two times a day. I never have a chance to get her by herself to tell her how I feel....

How does one go about making out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 116 days ago

7 May 2008 (M) - Hey I have a question about how does one go about making out? Like not with your girlfriend. I dont have one.(just broke up with last one on Saturday) I'm tired of the devotion. It's not very hard for me to be extremely devoted, but at the momen...

Do you think he will say yes for going to our big dance? Answer fast please!!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - I asked a guy out today, to our 8th grade dance and did not get a reply yet. Do you think he will say yes? I am in madly in love with him. I AM IN LOVE WITH HIM...i can't believe it - wow, what a way to get that off my chest. Here are some signs th...

Why is he pushing me out of his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - Okay my b/f and me broke up and now he wont even awknowledge that i exist, when we were together we got along like best friends. Now he has moved on and im fine with that but he acts like Im not even there and we sit at the same table! His frie...

What is the sweetest thing that he/she ever said to you?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - I don't really need advice, I'm just curious. What is the sweetest thing that he/she ever said to you?...

What do you do when one minute he's saying he might, then saying he doesn't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 116 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - When your boyfriend of almost two months tells you he might like someone, after having to confront him about it. What do you do when one minute he's saying he might, then saying he doesn't? All within 10 minutes....

I see her everyday, and it rips me up inside when she ignores me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

7 May 2008 (M) - This girl rejected me. It was unbelievable how much I liked her for over 2yrs. I treated her like a princess when I asked her out, and she rejected me. Because of that I started smoking marijuana. I needed something to calm me but i see her ever...

All my mates have got girlfriends but I havent!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

7 May 2008 (M) - I've never had a girlfriend, although kissed a few girls - but no relationship. Am I looking in the wrong place? I'm 17 and about to finish school. Where will I find girls? All my mates have got girlfriends but I havent!!...

How should I ask a girl out..at night when the stars are out to make it romantic or what? .

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

7 May 2008 (M) - Hi people, i just wanted to ask, how should i ask a girl out? Should it be during the day, at night when the stars are out to make it romantic or what? Should i ask out by a note or get a friend to ask her? Please help, i'll appreciate it very muc...