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Archived questions from: 9 May, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is my confused boyfriend losing interest in me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Everything was great on Monday. My boyfriend was really sweet, as usual. He hugged me, kissed me, told me nice stuff..and i felt really nice around him. It's not love, but it could be. Anyway, i knew stuff at home wasn't great for him...his mom and ...

Are these signs that she fancies me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - The woman who works at the shopping mall that i sometimes go to, i suspect fancies me. When i buy stuff she will "go all shy" around me when i am at the paying point, and when i walk away she will look at me for a time and smile, but she doesn't ...

Self improvement plan.Will it work? How do I carry it through?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - Here's the situation: I’m 16 overwight and painfully shy, especially of girls. I want to lose weight, shyness and get a girlfriend. This summer I plan to do intense exercise, eat more healthily and go to the mall and start talking to random girls. ...

I've always had a problem with believing in true love, but I kind of still question it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I decided i'd give him a chance after 3 years, now i feel nothing could replace him. I've known him for longer than three years and he has told me his love for me ever sence the first time we met. Me and my love have been together for almost 4 mon...

When will I know she's ready to have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - Hi everyone. I've been dating this girl for nearly a year, we get along very well, finish each other's sentences and all that, lovey-dovey kind of couple.I swore I would not be like that in another relationship, but.. here we are, lol. Anyway here's ...

What do guys in their 25's think, and how do they think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I need some help from the guys, girls can help too. My question is what do guys in their 25s think, and how do they think? I am very close to this guy, we talk over msn almost everynight, and everybody knows that we are very close friends. To the ...

He's changed, what can I do to get him back to how he was?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Hi, Please help I am deeply crazy about my boyfriend, and i know he cares about me too. However he's very jealous and gets angry very quickly, it's the reason why we have been not together. He always comes back, i know he loves me, but why does he ...

I was happy with his friendship - I never stopped loving him and gave him another chance, now this??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - This is long so please bare with me. When I was younger - I had the biggest crush on one of my sisters male friends. I never thought that I would ever stand a chance because he was older (6 years) but when you are young that's a big age gap. ...

My 'perfect' man with a girlfriend....Is he giving me signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Hello newbie here!! I have been single for over a year now and recently been email/facebook flirting with a guy who is quite local to me. He instigated it by emailing me first off (approx 1 month ago). I originally know him from university altho...

I think he does love me but he's never got time for me. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - We're working abroad and we are both married, he has a girlfriend but i couldn't help falling in love with him, he said he love me too. I really love him so much (well i'm just a human). My problem is i feel bored with our relationship because we d...

I really just want to let myself go with him tomorrow night, but what can I do to stop the nerves?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Bit of a strange question. Recently, my best friend, who is a guy admitted he was in love with me. We have always had an amazingly intimate and close friendship and I think deep down I have always been in love with him too. He left me a letter...

Will a brace put the men off me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I want to meet and date other people again after getting out of a relationship. But i maybe getting a brace this year, as i want to straighten my teeth. will it put men off me? when they see it? ...

We keep breaking up, but I really want him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I felt in love with this guy since the first day I met him, and then we had a relationship, for more than a year, the problem now is we always break up and make up, because we do really love each other. He dumped me but I know that he still lo...

So...I'm still really confused about whether he likes me or not! Does he?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Ok this is sort of a repost and really hope it gets posted cuz i really need help! I wrote up yesterday and and only got one answer who said they didnt' really undrstand it so i'm reposting to make it mroe understandable so hope you can help!! R...

Where did I go wrong? Why doesn't he respond?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - where did i go wrong? should i give him time or just move on? I recently start dating this guy, we get on really well. I felt that we know each other for sometime. We went for a drink then decide to go back to mine and watch a DVD. I suggeste...

I know the relationship is really unhealthy but I don't have the strength to leave!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - well i dont even really know where to start. me and my bf have been dating for 15 months now. i am currently ending my first year in college, and about to go home in one week. he is still in high school, a senior, and lives back home(i go to college ...

Is he only being friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (?) - i've known this boy since i was 7 years old. Is he flirting with me or is he just being friendly. *he tickles me and pokes me *he always teases me and have special little nicknames for me *he'll shove me after he has said something funny *he la...

Should I believe him after he broke the promise the first time, about visiting lap dancing bars?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Hi, My fiance is going out tommorow night to liverpool with a load of guys who want to go to a lap dancing bar, when I first got with my fiance I explained that I do not like these kind of things and he said he didnt like them either and promised...

How to make him interested in me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - how can i get him back? After being attracted to each other we passed the contact details, then we met once for dinner, he show his real interest by openning up...i was sure he liked me...we had no physical contacts at all, then i told him about my...

I have cheated on him several times but we're still together. Do I really love him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Hi Everyone We have been dating for 2 yrs now, but sometimes i feel like i dont love him, and like he does not love me. I have cheated on him several times but we're still together, and he is the first longest relationship i have ever had. The o...

How can I help my girlfriend? I'm the only one to whom she has confided she has been raped.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend recently confided in me that she had been raped, or molested or something of the sort not too long ago, possibly less then a few months ago, she refuses to divulge any details to me, she won't tell me who, when, where, what ...

I know that he loves me, but I can't help thinking he may prefer a thinner girl...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I'm a bigger girl and I'm mostly comfortable with my weight, but I know how society views women who aren't a certain size. This makes me very nervous when going about intimacy with my boyfriend. I know that he loves me, thinks I'm gorgeous and the ...

Everyone tells me to move on but I keep waiting for him. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - well i been waiting for this guy for a long time...... everybody tells me i should move on.... i ask him out and he said i cryied for him i did everthing..... he tells he loves and he aways tells to sit next to him... so i do and he tells he wants ...

Why am I cheating on a girl who is so perfect for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - I've been dating a girl for 2 years. Everything was perfect, until I met a girl about 8 months ago who I slept with, roughly twice a month, for 6 months. I have only physical feelings for this girl and do not love her what so ever. I have be...

He is flying back to his home town and will see an ex he has strong feelings for. Should I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - My boyfrend wanted to take a flight back to his hometown to meet up a group of ex collegues who were flying in from another country for work, in particular a girl he used to have strong feelings for when they were working together. they actually ...

I'm no stunner but I'm not the elephant man either - So how can I attract some female attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - How can I attract some female attention? I'm kind of shy and not good at flirting but I'm a nice guy and I'm not hideous but i'm 28 years old and I've only had sex twice, and that was 2 or 3 years ago. I was going out with a girl for two year...

I think about having sex with this other girl, but I'm already with someone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, I have a question i know you all may hear this a lot, but i need to have it answered in detail Right firstly, i'm a bi-female and i have been dating this girl got 3 years, but i do still like guys a little, but i am mostly for ...

My date for the prom...do I greet her with flowers, a rose or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - I'm taking girl to prom. I'll be meeting her there because she's arriving with friends. Do I bring flowers? A Rose? Please explain in much detail. Thank you....

Why does he not reply to my messages or call..Is it me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Ok here goes, since i've been single i've only met men that just want sex. Now i have met a man younger than me that is a sweetheart. He is not afraid of his family and friends meeting me. He lives an hour away from me which is not bad. Ho...

My ex boyfriend who I still love moved away, and I miss him so much!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Okay there is this guy at my school who i really like but he moved away. We went out once but not for very long. He is sooo shy. All his friends said he liked me still, but i don't know if it's true. I really miss him. What should i do? I real...

He's not "small" but his male part is crooked.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I've already posted this but no one really replied... please give me some feed back thanks!!!! Okay, so i've been dating this guy for a while and we recently had sex, twice. Both times i was on top and both times didn't last too long. I've only ...

I want to know if you guys prefer curvy or skinny girls...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Ok i'm a 17 year old girl and i'm a size 10-12. I feel sooooooo fat...I just want to be thin. I just want a guys opinion on what they really prefer, curvy or skinny. I do have a boyfriend and he thinks it's great, but i'm interested in other guys...

He's 35 and I'm 17 and pregnant, is that really wrong?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I'm 17 he's 35, we have been living together for two months, and i'm 6 weeks pregnant. I love him so much, is this wrong we get along so good, so in love with each other? I left mad and went 7 hrs away to my sister's and he drove all night, tired wi...

Why is she taking so long in deciding whether she loves me or not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - Please help me! I've been with this girl for 6 months and I love her, she told me she'll feel the same way soon about me. She's said before that she wants to make sure everything will work between us. I'm doing my best to wait for her to make up h...

I'm having difficulties satisfying my girlfriend due to erection problems.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm having trouble having sex with my girlfriend. As i seem to be suffering from erectile dysfunction. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. We have only been able to have missionary sex, with me on top. However i don't feel like she is s...

I blew him off due to family commitments and now I haven't heard from him. What shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I exchanged numbers with a guy at a party, and then we spoke over the phone everyday for about a week, making plans to meet up. He asked a few times to meet although I blew him off due to family commitments and now I have'nt heard off him. What ...