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Stayc63088
writes:I saw the cutest guy in the mall the other day and he was with a friend. I was with 2 other girls. They told me he was looking at me, you know, in that way. How do you approach a guy when he is with a friend?? I imagine it would take some balls- excuse my language. Needless to say, I don't have those. And guys probably wouldn't approach a girl with her friends unless he was pretty confident as well. Every time I met his eyes he looked down and away shyly, the same thing I did when I caught him looking at me, ha. So what happened was he and his friend ended up leaving and I felt like I had missed an opportunity. What do I do in this situation next time? On one hand I want him to approach me, but on the other hand I want to show him I have the confidence to approach him first. Any good openers or ways to not be embarrassed when they are with friends? Thanks !
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reader, Mackenzie_heartbreakhotel  +, writes (3 May 2008):
 hey there, maybe you could just walk over together with your friends and talk to his friends AND him... everyone would be talking and you could get to know him... dont worry too much about you being shy, obviously he is shy himself and many boys / girls think its really cute when someone is a bit shy so he probably thinks you are cute / interesting i think from what you desribed. you'll be fine, just show him you are confident enough to make the first step. i dont think the boy HAS to take the first step, we're living in 2008 :)if you really think he's cute - just go for it the next time you see him, i mean actually nothing really terrible could happen right? oh and tell your friends you are with that you like him, im sure they will help you.
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