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Archived questions from: 20 May, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Will he ever come back? If he does can I forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - im nearly 20 as is my now ex boyfriend of 2 years. as far as i was aware we were very happy together, i loved him so much and he was everything to me, and i thought he felt the same. he was still saying he loved me and everything else when he broke ...

He's messed me about but now wants to talk, should I go and talk to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Me and my bf had been going out for 6-7 months. I got pregnant pretty quickly but everything seemed to be going good between us. Then a few months ago he started to change and seemed distant. i always foned him but he neva bothered to phone me. at ...

I don't know where to go from here, should I try to work it out with him or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going through a rough time and no matter how much i tried to discuss it with him or how i was feeling he never seemed to want to talk, he just said i was being stupid. i began to think i was for a while and then one day ...

Id like to date someone but the guys I meet only seem after one thing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - hi,im 23yrs old i have been single for about four years and have been happy going out with my single mates but lately ive missed being with someone but i have found it very hard to meet genuine men the men i meet down town come up to me and talk to ...

Any advice on how to approach him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - there is a guy i have been in love with for about 4 years. I have no idea how he feels about me but i catch him looking at me sometimes and hes always really nice to me.I'd really like to know him better even maybe as just a friend as we have lots ...

I had sex with him before I was ready, any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. It was all going great, until 4 days ago. It was the first time i'd slept at his house, but not the first time we'd slept in the same bed. We were messing around, and he asked if I wanted to do ...

I want to make this work, I'm ready for the commitment, but he's seems to be backing away! PS His mother is living with him now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5828 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Me and my military boyfriend have been together for a year. I am ready to move in together and to get engaged and make a commitment in our relationship. I have a 2 year old little girl and he has a 4 year old son both from previous marriages. He ...

I've been with my bf for 3 years, then HE shows up again! I don't know a way out of this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do anymore with my life. I have a boyfriend we're 3 years together, I love him I swear is true but in my life show up the other one...He is so cold, without emocions but I fell in love with him. And i betrayed my boyfrien...

His high sex drive is making me feel under pressure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm very happy with my boyfriend but there is one thing that always causes problems between us- his sex drive is a lot higher than mine and i feel as though it is coming between us. my boyfriend of 2 years is lovely, hes thoughtful, cari...

I really like this guy, but he seem so busy and hasn't replied to my last messages!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5828 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy - called Harry - for the last week. Having been on a proper date yet due to work committments (we both work in the same field and we are super busy right now). Anyways, saw him at the weekend and we quite literally spent ...

When is what appears to be "something" actually "nothing"??? Am I in denial, blinded by love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Found this text from a chat log on my PC: "Hi Sexy Man!!!!!!!!!!! Are we still on for Memorial Day weekend?" At first I thought it was my daughter to her new boyfriend (since she shares my PC) and so I asked her if he was coming down for that we...

I just want things to be good between us! I broke her trust, she was kissed by another guy...I'm heartbroken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5828 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have recently had problems. She doesn't know for sure if she is in love with me. And I broke her trust on something, and so she is mad at me. But we are trying to sort things out. She has a crush on some guy. That's fine, I m...

When should I tell my current boyfriend that my previous invalid marriage will be annulled? He doesn't know about this previous relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5828 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - When is the best timing to tell my current boyfriend that my previous invalid marriage will be annulled? I had a short duration (3 months)of a long-distance marriage which was a disaster. My ex was impotent at the time of marriage so this marriage...

Falling out of love with my boyfriend! Should I try again or let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5828 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I feel like I'm falling out of love with my boyfriend. We've been in a long distance relationship since Oct, and its been fine up until now since we get to see each other almost every other weekend and talk/text all the time. Then he got re...

He obviously isn't into me, after seeming so interested! I'm confused!

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20 May 2008 (F) - Hello, I have a situation here. I met this guy that seemed so interested in me. Gave me his number in which i did not call for a few weeks. I eventually text him asking him how his stay was here? he is not from USA. He replied promptly asking ...

I'm interested in a new guy, but this knock to my self-confidence by the long-distance ex has me doubting things! I don't want to be hurt again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - bit mad here, as Im usually answering the qusestions, btu here goes....Met a guy and we dated for 2 months it was a long distance relaionship, I met him through my friend who was his cousin. Well he started going on about wanted to move down with ...

We haven't seen each other or talked since he texted me saying, 'We need to talk!' What's going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - me and my bf have been on and of so much in the last year but recently have been on for 2 monts which has been lovely weve spent loads of time together and had a reali laugh but i randomyl got a text last week saynig we need to talk we both want ...

We met via on line dating, is it too soon to ask if he has other dates in parallel? We have been intimate already.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I recently met a guy on an on-line dating site. We have been dating for a couple of months and sleeping together as well. Out of curiosity, I went on the site to see when he was last on-line, and it was TODAY. How do I approach him about this? I ...

I made him give me advice about dating a boy, without knowing I referred to him. Now that he knows, I'm not sure what to do next.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Basically, I'm 15 I really really like this guy, he's 16, and I've told him. But before I told him I was asking him for help on 'How to tell the guy that I like him', he had no idea that it was him. When I did ask him for help he said 'If you're n...

Have developed feelings for a good family friend. Problem is I'm 18 and he's 42.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I have known this guy for years, he's a good family friend. The problem is around 2 years ago I realized that I had very deep feelings for him that fall beyond the line of friendship. I'm 18 and he's 42. Normally, this would bother me, but given th...

Should I cool off for a while and not make an effort to see what he does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Ok, I have been to this site before for advice and go some really good answers, so I am back! I have been seeing my bf for about 18 months now. When we first started out he was so into the realtionship. He bought me flowers, send random cards say...

I feel she isn't putting any effort into our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while now and I feel that she isn't putting as much effort into our relationship as I am, I give her plenty of attention but she only gives me a little, I don't like to seem selfish here but I don't ...

We've been together for 6 years after meeting on line. I dislike his on line activity and do not trust him, should I end it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has been chatting online to strangers. I know that he has done it in the past and he promised that he wouldn't do it again. He has said that he hasnt and doesnt want to meet any of them but I feel I cant trust him. Should I try agai...

I've been having no strings sex with the ex, who I did not seem to be able to let go... until now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I've been separated almost a year and i have been having sex with the ex on and off. However, it has been almost 3 months no sex. I have met someone 3 weeks ago that i really like. My ex wanted to have sex last night and i had no desire too. Is ...

WOMEN: Have you ever dated an older man? MEN: Any insight on younger women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Women : Have you ever dated an older man? If you have, how young were you when you first dated an older man, and what was it like? Age gap? Men: Any insight on younger women? I’m 23, she’s 19. I’ve always dated women my age or a couple ...

Being loving and committed is all very well but what is the value of honesty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - I started seeing someone a couple of weeks ago. I was initially very excited, optimistic and happy. She isn't particularly outgoing though and I have noticed that I have been fantasising about an ex I was with for five and a half years, who was ...

Do I ask him out? Do I wait for him to ask me out? What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Ok, I really like this guy at my school. I ended up telling him (even though it was through a game of truth or dare). His Gf just broke up with him a week ago and I dont know if he likes me back. Do I ask him out? Do I wait for him to ask me out? ...

Your EX stories: Did you tell your ex you have strong feelings for them yet and how did it work out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I just wanted to know if anyone has told an ex they still have strong feelings for them and have it work out? Thank you all for your answers. :)...

What will I do when and if I lose him? I cannot imagine another one in his place.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Hi actually I wanted to ask what should I do when i have lost my love. Will I gain it back? How should I gain it back? i dont know the reason of him going away but i want him back I just cannot imagin anybody else in place of him. He is my chil...

I am trying to help her fix the problem but she is not cooperative...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend of a little less than 2 months had cheated on me with a number of different people. It has happened 3 times, and only once was she sober. I am trying to help her fix the problem and get through this myself, but she won't talk to me ...

I was outgoing and extroverted and we were always talking, but recently I've nothing to say to him. Do we have a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5828 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - So. I need some advice. I've been seeing this person for 6 months now. When we started hanging out- as friends- i was acting like myself. I was outgoing and extroverted and we were always talking, I actually dominated most of the conversa...

My face turns red and my voice starts to shake when my crush is near me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - lately I have been turning red every time that my crush gets near me...Every time he gets near me my heart feels like its going to explode and my voice gets shaky and my face turns red...is there anything that I could do to make myself stop turning ...