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Archived questions from: 5 May, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

We're both getting pretty upset about not being able to spend more time together, what can I say to comfort her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - I've been with this girl for over a year now. And it's a long distance relationship, We live about 3 hours away from eachother. I try my best to please her, but I either have work or whatnot when she's free. I try to see her as much as I can, but...

Has he just used me or it is because he is scared about Iraq

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - Hey i just need some advice although i worte my story on here before xmas i might need some extra advice. I had been with my boyfriend on and off for 18 month andwe split at xmas we have been kind of just close since we split and recently decided ...

I am in love with my cousin. How do I attract her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - I am secretly in love with my cousin. Even though I have only seen her a couple of times. She lives in the states and sometimes my mom and I go visit our relatives. I can't stop thinking about her; so many nights spent fantasizing what it would be ...

How do I know if I am "moving too fast"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - my question is how do you tell when to make the next move? cause i was hangin at her house watchin a movie. i put my arm around her for a bref second and she sits up to take a sip of her drink. but she waits intel i move my arm to sit back again...

I've been wanting to lose my virginity for a long time now, but.....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - Hey, i'm 14 years old and before i go into anything personal, i am very mature for my age when it comes to relationships. Like i've never had an actual relationship with any boys my age as i think they are too imature.(i prob sound like a brat or ...

Should I be worried that my new partner of 6 months is or was bisexual?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - I've just discovered that my new partner of 6 months is or was bisexual, although she doesn't identify herself as this. Should I be worried?...

What do you think? Is he just being friendly or does he really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - Hello, I really need your help because this has been on my mind for years. I really like this guy in my area but he's a lot older than me (20 years older and I'm 19). We get on really well and he's a friend of the family. I don't have any intentio...

I don't want to risk her rejection and put our friendship on the line.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - Me and this girl have been friends for a while now and i'm starting to like her more, as in more than a friend. The problem is that i dont know if she likes me, and i don't want to ask flat out and risk her rejection and put our friendship on the ...

Is he playing mind games with me and hoping I will text him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - I met a guy at work who came on to me. We started texting regularly even to the point if I was staying at a friends house he stayed up until 3am in the morning to have a very interesting conversation with me. Suddenly things seemed to have s...

I said No to a motorcycle trip with himbecause of his bad driving habits, and now he's mad at me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend just bought another huge motorcycle. He wants to tour around the country on road trips. We are having a big debate about whether I will go with him or not. I am not afraid of riding on bikes but I am terrified of his poor driving ...

There is a problem with our sex life, she is too loose.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for about a year now and have gotten very comfortable with each other. There is a problem though with our sex lives; she is too loose. She was a virgin when I met her, and when she masturbated, to hit her g-sp...

Sex with my girlfriend used to be great, now she doesn't want it at all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been together for 6 years now, and sex use to be great... but know she doesn't want it at all. I have a 7 inch penis....and she said it hurts... what is the problem?...

What do you do if your best friend is dating your brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - What do you do if your best friend is dating your brother?...

After a long relationship I want to finish it, but how, without hurting his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - Hi All I am into a so-called "great relationship" for outsiders( friend who envy me) for the past 4 years. I am a bit manly in my thinking but a soft pity corner for him. I know at this point of life ,if i leave him i`ll be fine and maybe great....

Gradually she started hating me...she didn't even give me time to prove myself better!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - I love her since last 1 year but she hates me she doesnt even want to befriend me what should i do? i fell in love wid her when she had a bf. her bf betrayed her and i proposed her immediately. but was taken aback another friend of mine also pro...

What should I do about a long term admirer? The scenario feels unfinished.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - I wonder what should I do about a long term admirer . He sent me a letter saying " I will always be watching you, remember don't forget the happy ending ..." . I was in a relationship at the time and so was he .Neither of us were unfaithful . Since ...

My boyfriend has intense feelings for another woman. Is this a big problem him having a picture of her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has had feelings for his old high school friend/my friend for the last 5 years. We've talked a lot about this situation, and the conclusion is always, I'm crazy and he doesn't know how to get rid of these feelings. I really don't think ...

Why can't I find a woman who knows what she wants or what she deserves?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - I hear all the time from women (those I date and those I don't) things like "You're the perfect guy," and "you're a great guy," And "You're a good man," "a rare breed," and my personal favorite (NOT) "You're too good to be true," always the death ...

I normally know how to please a woman so what I'm I doing wrong here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - well i have plenty of experience when it comes to pleasing a woman.. i don't wanna sound cocky bc i am young and i have things to learn but we are very much in love and as you know in a relationship you want to please your partner.. well i know what ...

I want us to live together but how can that happen if he is reluctant to even see me?? He says he feels pressurised, I think he is not used to being in a serious relation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - I've been in a relationship for nearly 2 years now. He's 23 and i'm 22. I met him online and we met almost instantly despite me living in Manchester and him in London. 8 Months in to the relationship I decided to move down here to be with him. ...

I feel powerless about arguing about his other dates as I am just a friend... with benefits! How will these feelings go away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - Im utterly in love with someone i know isnt going anywhere and never will, it started off as a one night stand two years ago and then a few more since then we have become the best of friends going everywhere together holidays to festivals constantly ...

I feel rejected by my boyfriend. I don't know how to make him interactive with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have had issues on and off since we met for various reasons. however we still keep coming back to each other and want to make it work. but im so insecure, and i think its my fault, but i keep getting hurt by him and getting really ...

I've always liked him too, but I have a boyfriend! What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - Please help me, im so confused. Ive been with my bf for nearly a year but even though i love him dearly we have drifted apart a bit, and i dont feel like he loves me anymore. I got talking to an old school friend (male) who moved miles aw...

My date has little free time due to his job, should I demand more time with him or try to have a good time by myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 160 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - The man i am dating this year has a little free time because he oughts to be in a lot of social events because of his responsibilities. When we arrange to meet it's fine but when he can't i try hard to accept it. I feel that he doesn't really care...

Is my boyfriend an ABUSER?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - I am confused about whether of not my bf is abusive. Please tell me what you think. We haven’t been dating for long (just under 2 months) so part of him is still putting on the perfect guy act I think, but I feel that maybe these little things that ...

There's one thing about him that weirds me out! He's 32 and lives in his parents' basement.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - I went out with this guy for the first time on the weekend. He's cute,really nice and sweet, we have things in common and I think we had a good time. I felt very comfortable with him, coversation was good and it was really nice. I would like to see ...

I love this guy so much, but I don't know where I really stand with him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do about him anymore. I have known this guy for three years now, he has not been in a relationship with anyone. Him and I always talk and we keep eachother company all the time. There is not one day that we do not talk. I ...

I plan to write him a heartfelt note to show I love him and how sorry I am for my past mistakes, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - i want to write my bf a heartfelt note that will make him realize how much i love him and how sorry i am for all of the stupid crap ive done and that ill do anything to get his trust back! i dont know what to say to him to get my point across its ...

I need to be more confident around the opposite sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - They big problem I seem to have is that whenever I really like a girl, she already has a boyfriend(or finds me repulsive). This has essentially decimated my confidence with the opposite sex. My question is, what can I do to become more confident...

I feel so unfaithful because I think about other boys and even girls when I am with my boyfriend. Am I in denial?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - I was the one who had a question about my sexuality and had a bf i loved...a lot of u said i love him and that im just over analyzing everything...well i got to see him this weekend and he made me orgasm:) woo hoo and i couldnt stop holding on to ...

We've been texting each other and are now ready to meet in person. Any tips to dismiss the awkwardness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 May 2008 (?) - ok I've been talking to this guy that goes to my school. He is sorta cute. He's really nice and I'm pretty sure he likes me and I like him too. We have no classes together but have the same lunch and for about a week or maybe even two now I'm been ...

I'm not sure she has a boyfriend, how do I find out and how to overcome the unpleasant experiences with dating so far?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - Ok, here is my problem. I really like this one girl, but the problem is that I'm pretty sure she has a boyfriend. I'm not absolutely positive, I've also felt as if she has been giving me mixed signals. I'm beside myself. I think the world of her but ...

Should I let myself or someone else get emotionally attached if I'm moving?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - Hi I was wondering if i could get your opinion on something i have been giving a lot of thought. I recently just started a new job and for the first time since my terrible breakup with my ex girlfriend. i really like a colleague, however i am u...

What am I doing wrong that I can't get a girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - Hi... I'm 20 almost 21 and and I have never had any girlfriend, nor have I kissed, hugged, touched hands... etc, etc... And it's driving me insane!... when i see the couples on the park i just turn around... I'm on med school, I speak 5 langua...

Can you tell me if he is giving signals or just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 160 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - Ok so there’s this boy (lets call him A) who’s 1 year older than me who I have a crush on but is also my best boy mate. I havent known him that long about 4 months. Basically I’m confused about his feelings towards me. Yesterday me my best frien...