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writes:My boyfriend just broke up with after 8 years, he was treating me like dirt towards the end when he felt like it. I got talking to this other guy and he seems nice. It is finished with me and my ex just 2 weeks, should i meet up with the other guy?
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (3 May 2008):
 Don't jump into another relationship with this new guy, it is too soon. By all means talk to him and hang out, but don't immediately go into another relationship after you just ended an 8 year one. You need time to heal and make sure this new guy isn't just a rebound because of your previous crappy relationship. 2 weeks is much too soon for a new boyfriend. Good luck with everything.
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reader, malvern  + ♥, writes (2 May 2008):
 Yes, meet up with the other guy, there's no harm in it. Just keep him as a friend for a while - you don't have to jump into a love affair with him - just take one step at a time. As time goes by you will know whether you are then ready for a relationship or not.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (2 May 2008):
 This is too soon to start another relationship, because you are still vulnerable after finishing with your ex.
I am sure the other guy makes you feel good, as your ex treated you like dirt. The thing is what I am saying is, make sure this guy's intention is honourable and that he is not taking advantage of your vulnerability. Have him as a friend to start off with, then you can assess whether you are doing the right thing and also whether this guy is right for you too. Take care love. Dusky xxx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2008): Hi Hunny
If you have had a bad time of late with your ex being nasty to you, Then sweetheart why not go out and have a great time with someone who will treat you nicely....MUCH LUCK TO YOU HUNNY WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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