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writes:There is a new guy I am talking to, he makes me so happy, he claims to love me and I know that I love him also. The only problem with him is that he is sort of racist...prior to me he has always been into spanish women or women of mixed race..he cliams to be only interested in "exotic women" as he calls them. He says that even though I am not what he usually goes for he still likes me. I myself am having a hard time believing this..I dont want to be his "token" "black girl"...I feel like if Im not what he usually likes then there is a chance he may cheat or go looking for a woman who is. He is very shallow so I honestly dont believe that he could be with me and be happy and accept me being like i am. Should I even continue to talk to him or just leave it alone and not waste either of our time? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): No problem girl so glad I could help =)
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reader, d-gurl704 +, writes (23 December 2008):
d-gurl704 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thankyou for your response...you don't know how much you have helped...you just helped confirm what I thought, the part at the end where you said "because by him being like that turned me off and just made me want to find someone who likes me" Thats exactly the point I am at now...I really appreciate ur opinion...Thankyou
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): Wow, did we use to date the same guy?? lol I dated a man who was the SAME WAY! He was use to latina, or exotic looking women, and if they were black, had to be light skinned. I'm light, but when I say light skinned I mean real real real light almost looking white. His excuse would be "but I'm with you now" It didn't really matter to me because just like you, I always in the back of my mind would wonder if he would cheat on me with those type of women or would he secretly wish he was with someone like that other than me. It drove me crazy and I found him to be shallow for even thinking that way. If thats the type of person he prefers then by all means he should have been with someone like that. You deserve someone who wants to be with you no matter what your skin, race etc. I broke up with him, It really didnt matter to me that he was so called "into" me like he said because by him being like that turned me off and just made me want to find someone who likes me for me which I indeed found! =) I just coudlnt be with someone so shallow.Good luck girl =)
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