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age
51-59,
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writes:okay, here i am again with my problems.I jus got into it with my fiancee again, n this time i dont even kno where I stand anymore..I am tired of him thinkin that, what im trying to do for my son, he thinks im doin it for myself.. I asked him to walk with me to the store because I need help with groceries i need to carry back home with me, so i needed his help.. He sid he was gonna go n get the car from his dad n b rite back..ok--so i waited, 30 minutes later--he still layyin down..so i said,"fuck it..u aint got to do shit no more..im tired of ur BS n i need to go to the store for ur son, not me..everytime i need u to do something or help me to do something, u dont want to do neither..ut u wana say sorry..yea u r a sorry loser thats what u r..it freakn xmas season, our 5th year anniversary is on nu years n here i am still stuck wit ur bullshit..why am I still with u..I thought i'd hang in there longer because i wana fight for our relationship, but forget it..im done..find someone else who can tolerate ur laziness.." n i jus took off to the store with my son, who's 1 year old, n came back with so many groceries..n i was sooooooo tired of carrying the groceries n my son as well..am i going cuckoo or am i jus stupid for being with him still..he still thinks that everythang in our relationship is fine, according to him..but with me, i think i need to see judge lynn toler..any advice.......
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (23 December 2008):
 First off, are you gay? Because your post says that you are a 36-40 year old MALE. Just checking, not that it matters to the answer that much.
I dont know the history of your relationship and from your posting you imply that this kind of behaviour is the norm ~ the laziness, the refusal to help, etc. If that is the case then you really need to think about leaving him, yes. However, just saying that he would get the car and not doing on the spot is not that big a deal. Instead of going ballistic when he hadnt gotten the car right away, how about just saying to him "I really need to get to the store soon. Could you please go get the car right now or at least walk with me to the store now? I dont want to wait much longer."
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