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anonymous
writes:Hiya, hopefully this will be a fun question :) I remember reading an article in a magazine a while ago about turning on your partner. Under the 'dirty talk' bullet point, it suggested whispering something sexy/naughty to them unexpectedly, eg whilst out shopping. Now, I think this is a fantastic idea... But I'm stumped for what to say! I'd love as many ideas as possible. Thanks! :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): You can start with just simple sounds in bed things like moans,heavy breathing and such. After that move to something like saying "oh that feels good" or "yes right there". These will help you move onto more dirty talk. I found this great site which helped me a lot http://www.dirtytalkingguide.com
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): Were you thinking of something like, (as you stroll through a pet shop), "A chameleon's tongue is as long as it's body, but I bet female chameleons don't appreciate it as much as I do yours!".
The real answer depends on how well you know him and his triggers. And, in no small degree, how "public" is the place where you are doing this: you can get away with a LOT more in a candle-lit restaurant than at your little sister's piano recital.
For me personally, it would probably require some tactile stimulation to do the trick: warm breath on my ear as she whispered, perhaps followed by a light kiss on the earlobe; lightly running her fingers across the nape of my neck; her hands running over my chest; etc.
A reference to a recent pleasurable experience might help. Last Sunday morning my wife & I made love about dawn and had a wonderful afterglow time. Later, as we were sitting in church listening to announcements, I leaned over and whispered, "I wish we were still cuddling naked.". That made her quite horny - which was quite cruel and frustrating, because our son arrived home from college that morning and we won't have the opportunity for sex-anytime-and-anywhere-in-the-house until he returns to school in January.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): No Uncle Phil, but you sing it and we'll harmonise on the chorus.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): "Do you know, I'm not wearing any knickers?"
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): http://ezinearticles.com/?Drive-Him-Wild-With-These-Dirty-Talk-Examples&id=1067695
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_are_some_dirty_talk_phrases
cheak these out......they sounded about right.
good luck!! xoxoxo
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 December 2008):
 The best way to turn a partner on is to know her well, ask what she likes or not, use some imagination, and get into her mind (and onto her body) to do what she wants. So, no "recipe" for it. This is not something like "The 1-2-3 guide to heavenly seduction by a devil".
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reader, damaged heart  +, writes (23 December 2008):
try takin it off and luring him into a hot shower...
kiss his ear...its the most sensitive part of the body...
umm lol cnt think of anythn else now lol hope that helps!
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reader, The Gentle Man +, writes (23 December 2008):
 if he is looking at something in a shop window get behind him and put your arms round him. Move up to his hear and let out a quiet moan (breathe but add that little twist), then just say slowly and in a sexy voice "I feel so horny".
As you continue shopping the thought of you being aroused will make him feel aroused.
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