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writes:My ex broke up with me 3 months ago, we remained friends until 2 weeks ago. I stopped talking to him because I asked him if he didn't like to talk to me anymore and he said that I always ask difficult questions, so I stopped talking to him. I am in this new relationship which started 3 days ago, I out my relationship status in my online journal.Today my ex sent me a message with my relationship status on it. He didn't say anything else, so when I came back from work I messaged him and asked him what about it. He then asked me if I was dating our friend(who I had a crush on for a while before I started dating my ex), then he asked me if it was this other guy I always talked about, so I told him that neither. So I asked him like it would matter whether or not was our friend or anybody else I was dating. He said that it didn't matter at all, that he didn't care who it is. So I told him not to ask and he said that I failed once again to understand him. He said that he didn't care who it is but that he still wants to know.I don't get this guy, but then again I am dumb. Can anyone tell me wtf is going on here
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): first of all dont ever call yourself dumb! secondly he is just messing with your head ignore him . he is trying to confuse you.. you are able to date any man on this planet its your choice not his and he doesnt have to know his name maybe he just wants to pick a fight with him.
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reader, carline  +, writes (24 December 2008):
your definately not dumb .....it's the battle of the sexes , how can we ever really understand each other really ....communication has to be clear ...can i ask how long were ye going out ? he says you don't understand him , then he is not being clear , and sometimes it's not easy being clear about emotions...especially when you are feeling vunerable feelings can get hurt , i personally think that men really don't play games they either like you or they don't and when they don't , i think they won't give you their time or thoughts ........your seeing someone else now , so give your ex some space , give yourself space to find out who you are with this other guy ......you need to let each other go, and if not i think you should put all the cards on the table and ask him WHAT he is looking for ...AND BE CONFIDENT ..:)
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reader, lean-on-me  +, writes (20 December 2008):
It sounds like he doesn't want to be with you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you. This is an unhealthy reaction to your break-up and I"d recommend staying away from him until he feels like being a bit more mature about the situation. It's only natural that you both will date other people and move on with your lifes. Congrats with your moving on and all the best with your current relationship. Don't let this ex bring you down.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (20 December 2008):
 Your ex thinks you're his property.
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