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writes:Hi I really need some help. Im 17, male from newcastle, and for the past year and a half I have been playing online gaming. About a year ago I started talking to a girl online, we immediately clicked and became good friends, recently though I think ive come to realise im in love with her. We have talked to each other almost every day for a year, she makes me smile no matter what, shes always there for me, shes beautiful, smart, funny and in my eyes perfect. We have seen eachother on webcam and we have each others numbers but were both shy so we havent phoned eachother yet. She lives in Exeter which is very far away from me. I know it sounds stupid falling in love with someone online, ive spent night after night convincing myself i dont love her but every time we speak its like im falling in love all over again, my heart aches to be with her, id do anthing for her, id kill for her, die for her, be there for her always but Im not sure if i should tell her, were good friends and im not sure if she could ever feel the same, and if I tell her she may treat me differently afterwards and I dont know what id do without her friendship. Please help me, what should I do? Should i tell her or should i just keep my feelings sealed away? I dont think ill ever be able to get over her or feel this way about anyone every again. Any advice on what to do would be much appreciated, sorry if it didnt really make sense, im typing with my heart not my head.Thanks.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (21 December 2008):
 Casually ask her why she hasn't got a bf? That will get things started.
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reader, nitros +, writes (21 December 2008):
nitros is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey, just wanted to say thanks alot for the advice it really helps alot, and especially to Emajayne, hearing a success story like yours really put a smile on my face :)
And just in case your wondering I am buisy writing a letter which im going to send to her explaining all my feelings and how much she means to me, I know its not as personal as saying it on the phone but honestly I dont think id be able to say half of what I mean without bubbling up, and I think it is still better than a simple e-mail. I have no idea how she will feel or what she will say to me aftarwards but afterall you only live once so I might as well give it a shot. and thanks again for all the help. :)
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reader, brokenandconfused  +, writes (21 December 2008):
 that is so sweet! it's really rare that someone falls this deeply in love online. i say you should tell her because she is probably thinking about the same thing. a girl always wants to know how you feel about her. i wish you the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): you should just tell her and see if she thinks differently either way your taking a rist at it she might like you back she might not but you seem to be a great guy anyone would be lucky to have you as a friend you are a great friend im sure and she might not like you the same way bit she might still want to be your friend and she might like you too with girls you cant really be sure they arnt like men but i hope all goes well
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reader, Emajayne  +, writes (21 December 2008):
 Dating online does sound kind of stupid doesn't it? Newcastle and Exeter are much closer together than Edinburgh, Scotland and Ontario, Canada...which is my current situation. I met this group of guys on online poker and we were all friends instantly. All of them make me smile constantly, but one stuck out from the rest and its been about a year since we fessed up. Since then i've been over to visit and this summer they should be coming over to see me. I was shy at first to call, i still am...but i would advise doing just that. Calling someone makes the gap seem insignificant, almost as if ur talking to them in person. To hear a voice is so much more than to see conversation typed out. I'm not going to point u in any specific direction as i dont really know what u should do. My little cousin was talking to him and said that i liked him and thats how that all started and i was lucky enough for him to like me back. Chances are she likes u too. If she didnt she wouldnt come on all the time to talk to u. The thing with distance relationships is that it is long distance. When it works out u feel sad that u cant be with them, but if it doesnt work out u are grateful for not having to see them every day or see them at all. So i wish u luck and u are very romantic, don't lose that. Chicks dig it.
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