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Guys: do you find it gross to finger a girl while she's on her period?

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Question - (14 December 2008) 13 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2012)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

This question is for the guys. Buuut, ladies, if you have any helpful answers, you're welcome to reply, too...lol.

My boyfriend has been wanting to finger me, and I've been wanting him to, also. He asked me if he could do it when we meet up tomorrow night, and I agreed. There's just one problem: Mother Nature brought me my Monthly Gift yesterday. I don't use tampons; I never could figure them out. Soo, what I want to know is, guys: do you find it gross to finger a girl while she's on her period? Like, would you consider it a turn off?

~seapc~

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A female reader, screamyourpain United States +, writes (4 June 2012):

I say its gross, but whatever you like.. do it. If the guy truly likes you and respects you, he won't turn you down just because nature called. If you two plan on having kids then he better get used to seeing blood because there will be a lot of it in that labour room. I am a girl that is into girls; I respect women and I think they are the bravest and strongest people. Guys have no clue what girls go through, therefore, I don't think they deserve the title of being tough. It shouldn't be their choice anyways. I mean, don't force him, but if he doesn't do it then thats when you know he wouldn't do anything for you, which is not how you should act towards your partner. But when I was with my ex, she wanted to have sex with me and I was on my period, and we compromised. We decided to just take it to the shower. It works well.

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A male reader, DemonDamien United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2011):

My ex used to get insane cramps that would keep her immobile, often for several days. Painkillers only went so far, and orgasms did the rest she said. I personally didn't think of it. My hand was red and sticky after, but she could walk around without limping, so I was fine with it. Later I tried going down on her during TTOTM... but that's a story for another time... xD

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A male reader, darkchocolate United States +, writes (13 March 2009):

Idk but this guys say it is not a good thing but maybe for your gf's it is. You might say they dont like it but hey have u actually tried doing it to them. I find it more pleasureble for the girl since shes so hot inside, and well if you know your girl exactly well then you shouldnt have a problem pleasuring her on her period. Ivedone it and hey the outcome was AMAZING!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009):

i personaly think it is easier to finger a girl while shes on her period. the only bad part is the mess you haave to clean up

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009):

It *is* gross. Hell, I don't want to deal with myself when I'm on mine, because of the mess and mine comes fairly heavy.

That said, try the menstrual cup (http://www.softcup.com)... (or google "menstrual cup") Its like you're not on your period at all! I could rave about this thing for days and still not tell you how great it is. Check out the site. There are testimonials on that site about it how women have done triathalons (including swimming) with them on.

All I know is that I had a weekend away with my boyfriend when Mother Nature showed up with her little package, and I wore one on my heaviest day and it was like I didn't have my period at all. No smell, no mess, nothing. Until you have to remove it. But you only have to do that like every 12 hours.

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A male reader, thekoepke United States +, writes (4 February 2009):

I don't, i think its better cause its a bit easier to finger, as long as you don't mind, he shouldnt have a problem with it, i know i don't

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A male reader, eddie0513 United States +, writes (16 December 2008):

honestl not to sound like an ass but i would find it gross

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008):

I don't really care, why? cause I'm not touching the blood! and don't have to smell someone else odour. I find it strange

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A male reader, sommerslover United States +, writes (14 December 2008):

sommerslover agony auntYou might want to let him know that mother nature has brought you your monthly gift, and that the fingering session will have to wait. I really don't think you want to deal with the mess that could be made doing this. There are products made that you can have sex while on your period, but since you don't use tampons, you wouldn't be able to use this other product either.

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (14 December 2008):

a_decent_1 agony auntHey MutantKitten, What about the Odour..?

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A female reader, MutantKitten Canada +, writes (14 December 2008):

MutantKitten agony auntSex is about sex. Tell him. Maybe he's comfortable with it, maybe not. Only way to know is to aaask. You could clean up a little bit prior to, and it shouldn't be a problem. What about the shower? That sounds like a good place!

Anyways, these other guys are crazy. Why is it okay if she bleeds on you if she's a virgin, but not if she's on her period?? Cum and Blood are both involved in sex. Mature guys get over it. Ever think that cum is as gross to girls, as blood is to guys? :P

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008):

My boyfriend would find it gross and I would! Sexual stuff is about cum :) not blood! Would you find it a turn off if your bf was fingering you and there was blood getting everywhere????

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (14 December 2008):

a_decent_1 agony auntA BIG TURN OFF.. Please tell him that you could meet some other time.. Nobody actually enjoys fingering when a girl is on her periods.. The odour etc is just too ..........

Please don't start off in your periods..

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