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writes:Hi people quick question if you could answer it that'd be so good!Well im 17 and havent really had a bf / sex yet but it doesnt really bother me that much. Me and my male friend whose 18 are soo close and just sit chatting and such in our underweaar and we both flirt so much. We both came to a completely mutual decision to have sex if hes single, it started off as something to like not be a vrigin anymore but now were jsut gonna do it anyway. Hes lovely and I know would never hurt me and hes already gone through it with me. But does everyone think is is like morally right? even tho we both want to! (ps i kinda think he likes me as more than a mate and i feel like that towards him too!) And hes such a good mate i cant tell my other friends and ask theyre opnion cos they would go mental!Thanks for reading the long question people!!
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reader, JennayyyCx3  +, writes (29 August 2008):
 umm thats not good that hes saying that type of stuff while he has a girlfriend..ever hear of the quote "If i'll do it for you, i'll do it to you"? But anyway...Sex is something thats very important and personnally im waiting till marriage...if you were to tell us that you are inlove with him and he loves you and your not sure then i would say ok maybe, but first of all your not even dating the kid, second of all he has a girlfriend so these thoughts shouldnt even process in your mind until he is very much single, and third you guys dont even love eachother in that way/dont tell eachother how you really feel. What i would do is this: Wait until hes single, tell him you have a cruch on him(and hopefully he will be honest as well) then let that growww for a bit and then maybe, MAYBE..then you can consider having sex..thats what i would do i guess..well actually i would wait till marriage still..lol but its your decision. ANd im not trying to sound harsh i just want you to be careful cause its a sticky situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2008): if you like him that much maybe he is your boyfriend?
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reader, 0peachy0keen0 +, writes (29 August 2008):
0peachy0keen0 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah hes not single a the moment which is abit ahhhhh. But we havent done anything and hes made it clear he doesnt want to until hes out of this relationshop (not that he wants to be out of it) and i would never go there whilst he has a gf! thanks for ur advice!
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reader, louxxlouxx + ♥, writes (29 August 2008):
 I think if you are gonna go for this you should see how he feels about you 1st. Don't have sex with him in the hope that he will tell you how he feels afterwards because he may only like you as a friend and your feelings may grow stronger and you will be left really hurt by it. I would suggest not having sex with him during your current situation because it will completely change your relationship and you may end up settling into a casual sex relationship and struggle to pursue other relationships.Only you can decide whether or not this is right for you. Some people don't mind having a casual relationship but if you feel more for him than just friendship then I would completely avoid going down the "friends with benefits" road cuz you will end up heartbroken x
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (29 August 2008):
 well... on one hand you guys aren't dating and i would say save it for someone you are actually in a committed relationship with.
on the other, you have feelings for him and trust him and are very close.
it sounds like you want to, so be safe and go for it.
BUT what is this about " if he's single" - you mean he isn't?? no good!!
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