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writes:i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we have been living together for 1 year everynight is the same story i end up in bed crying my eyes out, he constantly accuses of me of infidelity and being places i have never heard of, hes always putting me down calling me a slag, slut, bitch, whore you name it he has called me it, he wont let me out with my friends and constantly tells me im not good enough to go out on my own, he even fights with me if i go somewhere with my sister because in his eyes shes a slut and wen were together im 1 too, i have tried numerous times to leave but then he puts on the sympathy act and me like the fool i am falls for it and gives in, i know he is possessive and controlling but its like i cant leave i dont know anywhere that he wont find me if i go to my mums house he will show up with the waterworks and i will go back with him like an idiot plz help!!!!
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reader, Befuddled1 +, writes (29 August 2008):
 What does he have to do to make you leave?Cos right now...he can treat you just how he wants and all he has to do is say sorry and you go back.I bet its nice for a day or two....but then something will piss him off and off he goes....whoosh...you in for it.I also bet your family and friends hate him and only put up with him for you don't they?spare them...and yourself from this pathetic arsehole you are somehow connected too....to be with a man who bullies a woman is wrong and weren't you bought up to know the difference between right and wrong?get rid...and one day you will wonder why you put up with the loser.You are stronger than you know x
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (29 August 2008):
 Well you definatly need to get out of this situation as soon as you can. Family or friends are the best bet. Then you need to discover the strength to resist the waterworks. Are your family and friends aware of what is going on?? Your sister sounds like you can confide in her....if not your mum or a close friend.
They will back you up I am sure. You know it is wrong to go back, you just need the support of those around you to make you strong enough to see through the seperation. Good luck :)
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reader, supermum +, writes (29 August 2008):
 i have been in the same situation as you babe, and i know how you feel... but you need to remember that it is unlikely he will change.
You may not believe it just yet, but you are worth a lot more than being treated like that.
The hard part is getting out of the relationship... which you have done before...
but its just as hard resisting their lies. If he hassles you, you can speak to the police, who will talk to him, and maybe issue a restraining order, stopping him from contacting you. You can email me anytime for support, and ill be here. You CAN CAN CAN CAN CAN CAN do this!!! you just need to believe in it.
All the best.
xxx
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