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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well lets see....I have a girlfriend of two months and am really into her. She seems to be into me by what she says but her actions are leading me to believe otherwise. She knows that when I am with her I hate it when she texts all the time.The other night, she was texting for awhile and it has me thinking she might be cheating on me. I also may jsut be paranoid because a previous ex cheated on me and may be clouding my judgement.Is this something I should confront her about without proof? I do not want to seem insecure but at the same time I do not want to fall for this girl and get hurt even more in the long run if I find out she cheated on meThanks for your thoughts
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (29 August 2008):
 Hi
Hard to say, we dont know the girl! But all I can say is, when you start dating someone as you have, they have people they have struck up friendships with while they were single before you came along, and they dont just cut them off because you have got together. But chances are, once you two become more serious, these people will pale into the background and drift off somewhat.
Thats just explaining it in a way it has been for me in the past. You are in the relitively early stages, which is fun! But also you both still have a life at the moment, that existed before you met.
Although there is a fine line between replying to people that txt while you are in someones company, and going over the top and ignoring the person you are suppose to be spending time with!
If she is basically neglecting you when you are together, maybe a little word in her ear about saving the txt convos for when you aren't together might be a good idea.
But i would be surprised if you have much to worry about after 2 months! You should be enjoying this time getting to know each other and not worrying about other guys. She is hanging out with you because she wants to remember!
Chill.
C xxxxx
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